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I didn't realize it wasn't mine until some a few days ago. My Girlfriend told me due to some test results that was performed on her and the baby. She said she wasn't sure if it was mine but was hoping it was so she didn't tell me. Well the father of this baby is black and that freaked me out. I'm not a racist or anything but I don't believe in interracial mixing. It's not fair to the child. I need advice on what to do. There is no way I can love this cross bread baby but I still love my girlfriend even though she crossed an ethnic barrier.
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7 minutes ago
This girl didn't cheat. We met while we were both seeing other people. Hey, adults have sex and sometimes kids happend to save the moral crap for the Religious section. I'm not racist, I just don't want a black baby. How is that hard for anyone to understand. I bet a black man wouldn't want a white baby either. It's just the way the world is.
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Ofcourse the color of the baby would matter. How in the hell could I go around with a little black kid calling me daddy. I'm not black and I'm not it's daddy. It's not fair to the kid. Not my problem to love the litte guy, I'm not it's maker. Half breed children are hated by both black and white families. It's just a fact. They don't fit in. It's not that I am racitst, it the fact that I am proud of my race. Nothing wrong about that. Blacks can be proud about being black, why can't I be proud of my heritage. Being White isn't a freaking sin.
2006-08-22 11:17:56 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
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2006-08-22 12:25:59 · update #1
you lay down with dogs...besides, who could love that little half bast*rd? get ride of that b*tch, you can do better. it is a medical fact that blacks have a impulse deficiancy and cant control themselves in certian situations. so of course he couyldnt pull out. when are white girls gonna learn that? and that all they will ever be to a black man is his babies momma. and she is stuck with a lil oreo cookie bast*rd dumb b*tchs!
2006-08-22 14:50:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
There is nothing wrong with anyone being proud of their race, but you when you say stuff like "Ethnic Barrier" and Cross Bread Baby," but still claim not to be racist, well...Come on! And I'm sorry, but people that still say it's not fair for the child to go through life "Mixed" are saying that to cover up their true feeling's, which is racism! Let's face it, interracial marriage/relationships is pretty big now, and there are plenty of "Mixed" children in the world! I can't count the kids my children go to school with that are half white & half black, or a mixture of other races. Only backwards idiots worry about that stuff anymore! You are the very reason that your girlfriend's child will have to suffer and worry growing up. You're the kind of person that will make he or she feel self consiouse about who they are, and your girlfriend should really reconcider if you're the kind of person she wants around her baby.
As far as you not loving the little guy because he's not yours, that is totally your loss, not the child's loss. There are plenty of men (And Women) that love their boyfriend/girlfriend husband/wife's child like their own. My husband has never showed a difference in my children from a previous marriage. And what about all the adopted children that are black and have white parent's? What, do you think every time they call their parent's mom or dad out in public everyone stops and looks? Only the moron's would! My brother and sister-in-law have adopted two little black girls and I have been out to dinner with them and many other public places and when they kids call them mommy and daddy, nobody starts pointing!
This is your issue! You are the one in the wrong and it's so sad that there are still people out there like you. I'm glad that you have that "PURE WHITE BLOOD" I hear so much about from other racist. And like it or not, you are a racist! Just because you try and sugarcoat it doesn't make you any less of one.
2006-08-22 19:11:23 · answer #2 · answered by Naples_6 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is to damn near everybody that isn't white and some whites too.
I wouldn't worry too much about it.
As far as your girl friend goes. There's most likely no future there. If you can't except her half breed off spring, it is part of her. I'm pretty sure that's the way she is going to see it. If you don't want to raise a black child that should be your business but many people will try to make it theirs by calling you racist , bigot and other ignorant comments. So get used to it. And just consider the source. More likely than not you will hear these things from people you give a damn about anyway.
P.S.
I came back and checked the replies, It's just as I predicated. Do you really care what those people think?
2006-08-22 18:32:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothing wrong whatsover with being White and Proud, you should take it further even find out what country ethnicities you belonged to in the past.
The issue is why would need to take care of this guys baby? Let him and this woman take care of it. Its not your baby! Dump her and move on!
Shes pregnant with some mans baby and she wants some other man to take care of it? Pulleeeze. Your wasting your time with this little tramp, what makes you think when she poops this one out she won't come up again next year pregnant with some other guys baby of whatever color she chooses next time? she already knows your stupid enough to fall for it once.
Shes a loser and your a bigger loser for falling for it.
Now if she already had a baby/children from a previous "MARRIAGE" and you loved her and the children and she wasn't acting like some cracked pimped out ho, I would say go for it. Theres nothing wrong adopting babies no matter what their race.
Kick her into the gutter because her actions indicate she is living there.
2006-08-22 19:41:34 · answer #4 · answered by Tree W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being proud of being white. We should all be proud of who we are.
I think what you need to do, is stop your relationship with this women because it's not fair for the baby. I realize you are not ever going to accept this child and this child is only going to grow up to know hate which is not fair. By the way, I have bi-racial kids and both sides black and white love them very much. so I don't know where you got your information that bi-racial kids are hated by both blacks and whites. Bi-racial kids are only hated by people who are hateful anyway. I don't think you should be this child's father figure at all, because you have a lot of hate in your heart and you will only cause this child a lifetime of sadness. I know men who have become father's to kids outside of their race and you know the kid does not care, the kid knows this is not my biological father but this is my dad, this is the guy who has raised me and taken care of me and loved me and did all the things for me a father is suppose to do. I have to tell you this you are a racist and your girlfriend needs to leave you for the welfare of this child, because you have a lot of hate in your heart.
2006-08-22 18:40:14 · answer #5 · answered by crash 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Every person should be proud of their heritage, no matter what color they are. It's been said that if a person were to go back far enough in their ancestry, they would find that somewhere along the line, there will be evidence of another race in their bloodline.
2006-08-22 18:25:05 · answer #6 · answered by IthinkFramptonisstillahottie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not wrong just because you happen to be a certain race. You could've very well been born black. It is wrong, however, to belittle and disrespect other races. Anyway, if you truly love the mother, you would love her child as well. That child is a part of her. An innocent baby.
2006-08-22 18:29:34 · answer #7 · answered by Mary C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if you are "proud" of being White. You want to walk on your heels all day about your race, be YOUR guest.
By the way, your girlfriend does not have a Black baby. The baby is BIRACIAL!
2006-08-22 23:44:33 · answer #8 · answered by Varron D 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, it's not. It's just that a lot of people are stereotyping and think that White people think they're superior to other races, so a lot of non-Whites hate White people. There's nothing wrong of being proud to be White if you are.
2006-08-22 18:25:16 · answer #9 · answered by gilgamesh101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are racists and you don't deserve her because one day in the not to distant future there will only be one species of man and woman, we are mixing vary rapidly today, I believe it is a good thing because it is riding racists like you, you can't hate a child because it is half breed black white red or yellow, the only thing not fair to the child is not loving him/her, they are our future their children's future, start being proud of being human and forget your racists colours.
2006-08-22 21:22:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing wrong with being proud of your heritage. Whatever that may be. However, that is a really SAD way of thinking. Basically you are implying that somehow your race is superior. And that is not right.
2006-08-22 22:58:31 · answer #11 · answered by *karasi* 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋