I really do, we got into a fight a long time ago and i really don't want any contact with her even though she bothers me.... i'm really scared to talk to her a she hurt me mentally.... BUT... i keep having dreams of reconcilation... that we get back together and happy in the dream... but in the dream i feel uncomfortable because of what she did... i have them continously any one know why?
2006-08-22 11:06:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you don't say how long you were friends or how close but anyone who messes with your head doesn't sound much of a friend.when a friendship ends it is only natural to worry about moving on and this might be why you dream of a reconciliation.i was taught that our dreams always work out opposite to what we see.you don't say how she hurt you so badly ,or how much you are in contact.if you cant discuss what happened and for her to change so you don't get hurt then I'm sorry but you need to stop being the victim and move on.I'm positive that you'll find a nicer friend who wont mess with your head.good luck
2006-08-22 11:23:10 · answer #1 · answered by bubblesl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always a part in you that want to be friend with her.But its just a part,you should't let it rule you,if a friend could hurt you that badly,that friend should be out of your life.
Go out and mix around until you forget this person name,she not worth to appear in your dream,dream are just things you have been gone through,the more painful it is,the most likely,it will rewind,you have those dreams because you are hurt,not because you want to become friend with her.Cheer up and despair no more because you have found out this person was no friend material
2006-08-22 18:44:27 · answer #2 · answered by Janet Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have those same kind of dreams. But with my sister and I. we haven't talked in months, but i dont hate her, i chose not to talk to her. If its always on your mind, you WILL have dreams about it, dont read too much into it, it probably means nothing. if your not friends, its for a good reason, right?
2006-08-22 18:13:04 · answer #3 · answered by Marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you miss being friends with her but if she treats u bad u have to move on, im dealin with it right now, just make sum new friends, and ull forget her sooner or later!
2006-08-22 18:13:16 · answer #4 · answered by bettyboop344 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Subconsciously, you still crave that freindship
2006-08-22 18:08:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so that's not your friend.
2006-08-22 18:09:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋