My girlfriend and I were having a discussion about her virginity and she told me that she is still a virgin, and that when she was going to lose it to her ex-boyfriend she actually didn't because when her boyfriend tried to stick it in it couldn't go in. She told me they tried several times but his penis wouldn't go in. She even told me she got on top of him and tried to put it in but it just didn't go in. Can this be true, can this happen, has it ever happened to anyone?
2006-08-22 10:31:41 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I kind of don't believe since she also masturbates with two fingers.
2006-08-22 10:43:44 · update #1
plus i've heard that her ex said that they did have sex and that he did take away her virginity.
2006-08-22 10:46:51 · update #2
Yes that can happen
2006-08-22 10:38:55 · answer #1 · answered by Jade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That question should be between you and your girlfriend not the whole world! Secondly, she is not a "virgin" entirely as she did that much. She could still be internally and she probably wants to remain that way from the sounds of it. She may be making it "not so" for she wants to keep her virginity. That would be something to save for marriage really. And why would she even discuss an ex with you? Oh boy. Save the virginity.
2006-08-22 10:37:27 · answer #2 · answered by yeppers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it was sort of like that first time I tried... And must have been upsetting for her...
However she could still get pregnant from that from pre *** on the guys willy if not using a condom...
The willy does not have to go in and the guy does not need to ***... FACT
try these
www.ruthinking.co.uk
www.fpa.org.uk
www.brook.org.uk
Basically was most likly to tense...
the correct way to go about sex is ideally not before 16 or close...
And week or months or forplay practice going further and further...
All the feeling up, fingers, licking all over etc, getting good ad fingering, hand blow and boob jobs etc... getting used to seeing each other nude and all so when you do do it no tension its just an extension of normal love play...
And as you will mess up best if girl is on a contraceptive patch ot depro injection and always use condoms taking into account things like sperm in fingers from taking off condoms can be transfered like ivf and you shoot load on sheet, she sits on seet u can get pregnant. etc so do homework first
2006-08-22 10:39:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Strange as it may seem, its IS true. I dont know if its a common thing or not but it definatly happened to me. My ex girlfriend and i we tried it many times but 'it' just wouldnt go in. But everything else was normal (wetness, feel, even inserting a f1ing3r, period etc). I dont know if there is any cure or trick for that situation. Would love to hear from other people too.
2006-08-22 10:36:54 · answer #4 · answered by Aby J 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Shes lying. A vagina is a flexible muscle it can handle more than you think. Oh and btw, if you are going to have sex with her use a rubber, you never know what that other guy has.
I find a lot of girls like to brag about how tight they are. it's so lame
2006-08-29 04:45:49 · answer #5 · answered by Mariah&Lydias_Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible that when they had sex her ex went "flacid", and that would impede his "getting it in". Just because he says they had sex doesn't mean they did. Obviously you don't think much of your girlfriend if you're willing to believe her EX and not her. Maybe you're not quite mature enough for this kind of relationship yet.
2006-08-29 08:58:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im sure it can happen. I dont think she would lie about that, not to mention that seems like a rather detailed account. So if she is lying, she is pretty messed up to come up with a story like that. I think you should trust her, not to mention a relationship truly is founded on trust. So if you dont trust her now, what are you gonna do when things arent goin to smooth?
2006-08-22 10:35:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
do not concern your self whit petty questions in your mind, ream ember 2 persons have sex or make love for pleasure and feelings, if she is or not a virgin it dose not matter as long as you respect each other and be care full, please use protection.
and as for your question it is possible, as an adult i once had a short relationship whit a woman who was older than me and we could not have sex because she was (small) to put it in other words.
2006-08-22 10:44:08 · answer #8 · answered by roao 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I highly doubt they would jus try to put it in,then stop eventually..i beilve they would keep tryin untill it goes on...they aren't gonna jus give up...that's stupid! so yeah most likely she's lying and she jus wants you to think you took her virginity if you ever get to the point where yall have sex.
2006-08-28 20:34:40 · answer #9 · answered by roy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She isn't a virgin.
Even if she's telling the truth she emotionally and psychologically has lost her virginity.
I assume that isn't important to you, but truth should be.
2006-08-29 17:15:39 · answer #10 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋