i recently got a job offer from a business in my home town. I asked my girlfriend would she move with me. No answer. There are plenty of opportunities there for her as well. But all i get is "if that's what you want to do" or She changes the subject. I want her to be excited and get out of this town that doesn't even have stop signs and do better. She complains about the job she has now but doesn't seem to want to move on.She wants to stay here because of her family, i get that, but they are encouraging her to go as well. Should i take the job and move on or stay here and mold?
2006-08-22 10:30:14 · 7 answers · asked by Teri D 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Never stop your dreams, go for them full force. If she wants to stay close to home, let her. Don't be the one who say's I wish I would of went. Go, grab life, live it to it's fullest.
2006-08-22 10:38:10 · answer #1 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Life is short, and you are wanting to do something to better the situation for the both of you. Nobody likes change, but you can't let that stall your life. She either with ya or not. Sounds like her family will end up backing you if you decide to move, and she will most likely follow suit.
2006-08-22 17:35:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead with the move. If she honestly loves you, she will follow.
2006-08-22 17:32:33 · answer #3 · answered by arizonakellie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you stay there and mold, you'll resent her for it. If you go and she doesn't follow you, you'll miss her.
Which can you live with?
2006-08-22 17:32:42 · answer #4 · answered by Avid 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on do what's best for you
2006-08-22 17:32:11 · answer #5 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would take my job and if she dont want to come thats on her
2006-08-22 17:33:10 · answer #6 · answered by 2 THICK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move
2006-08-22 17:32:46 · answer #7 · answered by Kat33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋