this question is directed to those who are christian / religious people ..
i am involved with a man i met online
he is the sweetest man i have ever met :D i can spend all day singing his praises but that is not why i am posting a question :P
this man is a very religious guy even though he has gone through some crappy stuff - he and i have a little disagreement about something
i believe that god created man a certian way .. i believe that it is normal for a man to .. :D make himself " happy " or pleasure himself :P that is NORMAL ..i also believe that there is nothing wrong with a man WANTING to be with a woman , thinking about a woman , etc ( you can use your imagination :P ) he believes this is against the bible and God
his belief is totally the other way - he says that he thinks of me all the time : ) and that he lusts after me as well ..etc
what is your opinion? am i right or is he? i want him to be happy ..even if it was with someone else.
2006-08-22 10:10:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, I hope he knows that its wrong to lust after a woman and thats in the bible. Secondly, I don't personally think its right for a man or woman to play with themselves just to get pleasure that to me is totally wrong. Whats wrong with waiting on your husband or wife and letting them do it for you. And for him, he should keep his mind stayed on Jesus that way he won't be sinning by thinking sexual thoughts of you. I'll pray for the 2 of you.
2006-08-22 10:16:33 · answer #1 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your question is a little confusing, you have one opinion and say he has the opposite yet he is saying the same thing as you?.. you say nothings wrong with a man wanting to be with a women, and he basically is saying he thinks of being with you all the time...he also believes this is against the wishes of God and is written as so in the Bible, this is true....he is right about it goes against the Bible but you feel it's normal and he can't help himself but to be that way...we are human, we all sin...I'd say if I were to pick and choose my sins, then I choose to share such feeling with such a desired partner...whats the issue? He wants to but won't ?
2006-08-22 10:23:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are right and wrong things and a right way to interpret the bible, take it for what it says. It is wrong to lust and have premerital relations but everyone sins and this is something you cannot change only to repent and make it right. Get to know him and try to control your thoughts and research your bible if you have ?'s don't rely on an athiest based society to answer your questions!! Good luck and god bless!!
2006-08-22 10:16:52 · answer #3 · answered by *walkinthelight* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you ask God himself, there's no way to actually know for sure. Everyone interprets the bible differently.
2006-08-22 10:13:24 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest i am not a christian and i dont know what the bible says or doesnt say... but 1 question have u met this guy yet? if u have, and talked to him about this subject... just promise to him that u wont bring this subject up again and jus ignore it and 4get it.... hope it works... gd luck!
2006-08-22 10:23:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one is right or wrong. They are opinions and beliefs and everyone is entitled to them. You need to decide if this is a deal breaker or something you can live with.
2006-08-22 10:13:07 · answer #6 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that God wants all his children to be happy and sexual thoughts are normal it's when you act on them that it becomes an issue but if it's mutual and both want why not
2006-08-22 10:21:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nobody is wrong .. in this situation it is all in how you belive, don't let people here decide if you should make him happy or not , you are your own person and if you are comfortable with it then go for it but you never know unless you try.
2006-08-22 10:15:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u need to leave him alone just be friends with this man because if u tothink different then it will never work out so u should find someone else
2006-08-22 10:13:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. Why would God give us the ability to experience pleasure during sex, if it wasen't suppose to feel good?
2006-08-22 10:15:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋