What does my ex want with me? He calls and tell me about her and then emails me...?

Question

He ask could I take him out for drinks...I said sure if you put out and nothing in life is free ....I love him but I want something real...

Real question- Should I cut him out of my life completely?

Answer 1

I think you've answered your own question there girlie.
I dont know why men play women this way , I can't explain it, but the stories I've heard recently from close friends, and my own experience this last year , leads me to believe that there are very few men out there who are genuine.
It's hard to stop loving someone sometimes Even when you know you have been played by them , you remember the good times and hope to recapture that.
But for your own sanity walk away , unless a drastic change comes over his life, he is likely to do this again ,especially if he knows you are so easy to take him back.
Next time he e-mails you , I would say to him, " dont you already have a girlfriend ? does SHE know you are e-mailing me? "
Last resort , I would change my e-mail address and phone number to a private one.
You are heading for years of tears and heartache , he's playing you ,and I think in your own heart you know it.
God will take care of you girlie, ask for his strength and support, this will probably be the hardest thing for you to do to cut all the ties you have with him...but ask God for strength because HE has great plans for you and dosent want you to waste your life in heartache ...chin up girlie ..it will be ok ..honest ...pour your heart out to God ..He will help you through ....
God bless you ...hugs

Answer 2

Yes you should. He is calling and e-mailing because you let him. He calls, hang up! He e-mails, "SPAM" it! Unless of course you are not yet finished with him. Did you leave him or did he leave you? Are there children involved, because if there are you have to keep in contact. On any other level, I can't imagine why.
You should take him out for drinks? Why, is he handicapped?

Answer 3

It reminds me of what Princess Di said about Camilla to Prince Charles,
"There are 3 of us in this relationship and nowhere for me."

Do you really want to hear about her?
Of course not.
And unless he can't speak on the future of you two,well maybe its better not to engage him with your time.
See if you feel energized or depleted after your encounter.
You & your heart will know.

Answer 4

um yeah you should..this dude and you are kaput so tell him that unless he wants something real with you, you wont have anything to do with him, time is too precious to be wasting it on him while another dude out there is looking for the same things you are and is probably hotter lol...kick him to the curb..

Answer 5

yes cut him out ur life

Answer 6

the answer (literally) to your question is YES
you can cut him out completely
But reckon this is NOT what you want to do in fact...
you want hi to rry to the othe and return to you in regret and tears..

Please be honest with yourself first

Answer 7

if you feel like all he's doing is using you then you should stop talking too him cause thats what it sounds like.......you should let him go theres many other fishes in the sea but you waiting or him might blind you of what u really have been waiting for......

Answer 8

he wants to make you jealous. tell him to cut it out because you don't like it. and if he doesn't quit don't talk to him.

Answer 9

Dump the bum. He wants YOU to buy him drinks?

Answer 10

yes that's the only way you're going to be able to get over him.