Please advise me some methods to reduce my masturbation, I am 16 yr old boy. I am doing 3 or 4 times a day?

Answer 1

Don't marry the guy unless he takes you in to account. My Mom is having similar issues. I say run for the hills, or draw the line. He is not just a "kid" he is a human being, and spoiled brats are obnoxious. Most kids these days are being raised to behave this way, and it's because "they are just being kids." If you don't expect anything of your child then they will not change or grow up. So, unless he gets his act together about being a proper parent, then you should seriously reconsider taking on his luggage. You could also find another boyfriend, without a child with another woman. So unless you want to have to deal with this kind of struggle, because it will be a huge struggle, don't marry the guy. Not only that, but in order to raise this child to act civilized you will need to get the Mother to cooperate, and the likelihood of that is probably slim.

Answer 2

Do a sport or something so you're not constantly thinking about masturbation. It's all mental. You could try like awarding yourself with masturbation. Say to yourself, " If I finish all my homework before 4:00, I'll masturbate".

Answer 3

Don't reduce it 4 times a day is perfectly normal.

Answer 4

I do not want to deprive you of your pleasure. Keep going. You are a gone case. How do you find time for 3 to 4 shakes a day.

Answer 5

It'll go down in a few years. You are teaching yourself how to have sex, and when you get older, you will be more prepared to please a woman. Most 16 yr old males do it a lot also.

Answer 6

Don't worry, you won't go blind! It is normal. Don't go have sex like people are saying, masturbation is normal and healthy and safe. You will not always do it so much, at your age you have raging horomones and masturbation feels good. There is nothing wrong with it!!

Answer 7

Soak hands everymorning with jalapeno juice and dont wash all day. :) can add curry and wasabi if still having urges or become imune to jalapeno


otherwise your ok its normal masturbation is not unhealthy. unless you make it unhealthy. that goes for males and females.

Answer 8

I used to do pushups when the urge came.

It didn't work. I both masturbated and did pushups.

Boy, was I in shape!

Answer 9

Get busy! play a sport, read, go outside do something physical, walk your dog if you have one. You need to burn some energy and just cut back.

Answer 10

like i say practice makes prefect. i mean u can just do it a few times a day maybe 1 2 but no t4 times a day


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