We had a big fight the other night so I told him to leave. He stayed with a friend that night and is now back home. Did he intend to cheat on me?
2006-08-22 09:36:01 · 30 answers · asked by lex 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no - he went to church - duhhhh
2006-08-22 09:46:52 · answer #1 · answered by roadrunner426440 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's BSing you. I used an same lame strains... i might want to be grateful he offered condoms... you want to make certain precisely what's gong on and speedy. Get an AIDS try, because he would have offered them afterwards wondering "da mn I might want to save a field of those round so as that would not take position back..." With that reported... i might want to assert that is secure to assert that he's not satisfied with the present project... He needs something, and also you're literally not giving it to him. Sorry, i comprehend it hurts to hearken to that. in case you want him dearly and do not want to lose him, then attempt to make certain out what he did and why. this is a surprising tactic because your situation for him will basically help deliver an straightforward reaction from him. If it something you may replace and are prepared to adjust then replace it. If no longer, then get a felony specialist because i'm fairly positive if he has already lengthy gone to that severe then he's not basically going to assert 'sorry honey' and by no skill do it back.
2016-11-26 23:27:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a good question. I wouldn't rush into judgment yet. I would be asking myself, do we use condoms together? Is my marriage stale? Does he seem to have his own free time away from home? Check up on him first, cell records, emails etc. That should be enough to get some feelings or proof he is cheating. Good luck, I hope he's not.
2006-08-22 09:52:54 · answer #3 · answered by paulsexpress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, paranoid much?
My wife is buying condoms all the time, though we rarely use them. They have exparation dates, and we use them when the situation demands for saftey. If I went psycho every time she showed up with condoms, we'd be in big trouble as a couple.
I think you need to bring it up with him: ask him why he has them in his bag. If he says they're for you or they belonged to his friend or what not, take it at face value. Having a pack of condoms when you're married is not totally unexpected.
Now, having a stack of empty condom wrappers would be something to worry about.
2006-08-22 09:50:45 · answer #4 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be careful when approaching him on this, don't assume or freak out, don't start accusing him of anyhtiing,
jsut bring it up in maybe a light manner but not pointing it out, ask if you can go through his bag to get something and see his response, if he's ok then go ahead and take it out and ask in a way that makes him feel like he wants to bolt, ask what he wants them for and can you join? being sneaky and see if he is. don't make a big deal and think about it. is this worth being wrong about and losing it all or maybe he was going to tell you you just ruined it for him to come clean.
2006-08-22 09:58:32 · answer #5 · answered by curiousbynature 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you found unused condoms?? or used? if unused it will be to hard to proof it becasue he said staying friends and call him find out and see if that is true.. also can kind of proof that why did he has it first place??? For me I can't used Condom becasue I get really bad rash and She knows if saw rash know I am cheating but never had plm and she knows that I can't used condom. so whew.
But you have to believe or don't believe what he has to say. Really it hard to proof it... ummm. I wish i can help you more but don't know what to say.
2006-08-22 10:02:07 · answer #6 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You bet !!! Either he did or he is planning on it. I mean really, why would your husband have rubbers in his bag ???? In case a condom water balloon fight breaks out ???? He's getting something on the side somewhere !!! His "friend" is giving up the booty !!!
2006-08-22 09:45:55 · answer #7 · answered by gozedown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer to this. He is cheating already or trying to. Why else would he need condoms?
2006-08-22 09:49:35 · answer #8 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had found a box of bandaids,
I could buy that for a first aid measure...
but this is not within the realm of the phrase
"Emergency supplies".
Sorry.
YOU two need to have a little chat.
2006-08-22 09:59:50 · answer #9 · answered by susieque 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More often than not if a man is running around with condoms in his possession he's probably fooling around. Ask him and see what kind of stupid logic he has as an explanation.
2006-08-22 09:44:39 · answer #10 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang! Thts a bunch a sh..! Well Id sure ask him about it! At least though he wont bring back any aids ect........My husband has a whole bunch in a bag I wouldnt even know if any were missing!
2006-08-22 09:47:03 · answer #11 · answered by jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋