If your sister got pregnant at 18 yrs old and your mom didn't kick her out do you think it's fare for her to

Question

kick you out to!

but your 16 yrs old and have a job,and still in school!

no this girl isn't me but it is my friend

Answer 1

mom needs help. she wrong. good luck. nb

Answer 2

I don't think it's fair for her to kick anyone out of her house, she was once a mother, always a mother, doesn't mean just because they turn 18 that you give up on them. And I don't think she should kick out your sister either! she may be 18 yrs old, it's her choice to get pregnant or not!

Answer 3

No, I don't think it's fair but that's your mom. No one said life would be fair all the time. I do agree if she didn't kick the 18 years why would she kick you out and you 16. I didn't understand whether or not you were pregnant.

Answer 4

As a mother, I don't think it is right to kick any child out. Our job is to be there for you.

If you are under 18 and your mom kicks you out it is against the law. She is responsible for you and she can be charged with neglect until you are 18.

Of course, I don't know why your mom wants to kick you out....what's up?

PS doesn't matter why, she can't legally do it and could be in trouble for it, but is there some reason you could change that she wants to?

Answer 5

this happened to me.... i was 16 yrs old, pregnant and my mother allowed me to stay at home. i was able to complete high school in the top 10. went straight to college, became a nurse... i am so grateful to my mother for giving me a chance... meanwhile my sister was kicked out, she was constantly disrepectful to my mother, she did not want to remain part of the family... she felt that she was entitled to certain things because she was younger, she worked but wanted to come in at all time of the day or night..... now we are both in our 30's and she still works for minimal pay and i now have my own business....... there has to be more than what you are saying.... remember, MOTHERS DON'T KNOW EVERYTHING BUT WE TRY OUR BEST, AND WE CAN ONLY DO WHAT WE KNOW....

Answer 6

I'd say BOTH daughters need to grow up. It's not their mother's responsibility to support their children. I HAD a baby at 18. I didn't stick around expecting my mom to foot the bill. My daughter's father and I moved out the day I turned 18 which was 5 months before our daughter was even born. Have you ever heard of the saying "you play you pay?" Well I think BOTH girls should be grown. They wanted to be grown when they were having sex then they can be grown and raise their own babies!

Answer 7

So, she didnt kick out the 18 year old who got pregnant, but she did kick out you? Are you pregnant?

I dont think thats fair, and if she thinks like that, you are better off, hopefully you have someone you can go too.

Answer 8

well no... i dont think it is right for a parent to kick their child out i think you should have waited but oh well... the 18 yr old should have had to get out if it was a choice between the two... 18 is an adult 16 isnt

Answer 9

Maybe she got mad at you for something, try talking to her, maybe she is overwhelmed. None of you should be kicked out, and not in that situation, but in the end you have better chances of surviving with a better life than your sister, you seem smarter.

Try talking, dividing chores, working out, this should be a family matter and that baby is going to need all your love and support and maybe someone who will deffend him-her from a mean granny.

Answer 10

Your mom doesn't want to have to raise another baby. She's in her golden years by now, why would she want to raise a baby??? And don't tell me it's b/c she did a crappy job at raising your sister (even though that's already apparent)...she still doesn't deserve this.

She doesn't need to provide food, shelter, water, electricity and more for someone who's grown up enough to go out and have babies.

If your sisters old enough to have sex, she's old enough to get the **** out of mom's house.

If your mom kicked you out and didn't emancipate you, that's against the law. Hence you need to notify the police and child's services.

I can't tell which is dumber your mom or your sister. Maybe it's genetic. *sigh*

Answer 11

Absolutely not. A mothers job is to raise her kids to be the best adult they can be. How are you to become a good parent if you are starting out at such a young age without someone to guide you along the way. Family is never more important than when there is a crisis. Family is the support network that holds us up when we fall.