with me .i make it a point to stay away from her tell her parents but she always finds away to keep the **** up any suggestions please
2006-08-22 09:02:42 · 71 answers · asked by rick y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
OMG! you need to talk to her about it. find out why she is doing this. Plus you need to tell her parents. Something could have happened to her sexually and she might need professional help. Don't be around her alone!!!
2006-08-22 09:16:09 · answer #1 · answered by baby_flyy 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unless you want to go to jail I would suggest staying FAR away. If her parents don't believe you (and I am not sure I do either) then tell them from now on you will only meet the family in a public place, such as a restaurant. This way you will never be alone with the child. And she is a child. If she is truly acting this way then I would suggest counseling for her. It could be a sign that she has been sexually abused and is acting out to get help.
2006-08-22 09:10:03 · answer #2 · answered by mar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her parents again. Tell them this isn't a joke. You could get accused of child rape or any number of things. This child is 11 years old she needs help. She will find someone who will take her up on the offer. You better stay away from her at all cost. Does her family believe you? What are they doing to stop this behavior?
2006-08-22 09:14:35 · answer #3 · answered by Midnight Blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if an 11 year old is acting like that she has either seen some things in her life, or she has been abused or something. I think that the best thing to do is to try and stay away from her at all costs. Also suggest to the parents that they seek some help for their child, that is not normal behavior.
2006-08-22 09:08:54 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
If I were in your shoes I would stay as far away as possible.
Any sexual activity whatsoever could lead to statutory rape charges against you and ruin your life.
Explain the situation to the parents and give them an ultimatum. Have them take their daughter to a professional and have the problem fixed or accept your disassociation with them.
You are taking enormous risk and should realize that even a false accusation of sexual contact will turn your life upside down.
2006-08-22 09:17:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do DO NOT get tempted. She's 11, it would be rape, you will end up in prison and despite how she feels now she will end up traumatised for life! She's at an impressionable age her hormones are raging and she may be ready for sex but it certainly shouldn't be with you! Why don't you pick a time you know she is out and tell her parents you need to talk to them properly. Sit down with them and properly tell them what is hapening & how uncomfortable it is making you, suggest that mom has a quiet word with her and explains what she is doing is wrong and dangerous. One day she will be older and quite embarrassed at her behaviour but embarrassment is better than a screwed up head and you in jail!
2006-08-22 09:15:15 · answer #6 · answered by friendloveblue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what I automatically thought that you were just playing and was about to call you a very sick man but maybe you are for real. So did you explain to her that no that is not right? Everything after that should be up to her parents, I'd stay the heck away from her. Pray for her as well
2006-08-22 09:11:14 · answer #7 · answered by sha scrilla 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Any pictures?
Kidding! Stay away from her. She is obviously trying to find a physical replacement for supportive family intimacy. The reason we avoid things like this girl is there may be some slight level of attraction, and the ONLY way to get around that is ABSOLUTELY NO CONTACT WHATSOEVER. She will never find what she needs from the physical, and probably self-destruct.
...just kidding about the photos, really, I mean, since you don't have any, I mean, er, never mind. Say, we should chat.
2006-08-22 09:12:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have somebody that you know and trust be there when it happens as a witness. Then take that to her parents and explain that this type of behavior disturbs you and make sure your trusted friend is there when you tell them. realize that all kids go through this stage. Yes, if they don't do it to you, they will do it to others and that is when it could become something else to an innocent person as well.
I had a niece who would jump all over me whenever i was lying down on the couch watching tv. My father told me that it looked like a sexual advance on my part, and warned me not to allow her to do this at all because it would look bad on my part then it would hers.. It hurts when that happens, because she was just going through a phase and all children do that too.
2006-08-22 09:12:17 · answer #9 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your old enough to know that you need to keep away from her and that side of the family, and I suggest that you make sure that the parents as well as your wife are fully aware of what is going on. You are looking at a possible charge of rape if something goes on that she decides to use you as a scape goat for.
2006-08-22 09:12:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off u need to tell ur sister or brother who ever child she is they need to beat her 11 year old *** y is she thinking about sex anyway u need to stay away from her she need not to be welcomed to ur house do u have a wife tell ur wife let everyone know about this situation before she lie and say that u touched her let the family know whats going on if nothing happens i would go to the police because its something wrong with that little girl she needs counseling or something good luck stay away from her so u wont be behing bars
2006-08-22 09:12:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋