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stretch marks, a little weight gain???

2006-08-22 08:42:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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It's not that we don't notice, it's that sometimes it doesn't matter. People change, men included. Once in a relationship, attitude and compatibility are more important than looks. If you're everything he wants in a partner, what difference does it make what you look like? You're still you.

2006-08-22 09:22:27 · answer #1 · answered by Mike 4 · 1 0

We only be conscious once you obsess over some thing. it is quite unattractive! we are lots greater in touch with physique self belief quite than perfection. i might take a 4(on a a million-10) who's ok being bare and is overtly constructive regardless of flaws over a suitable 10 any day. i think of maximum adult males might believe me in this. on the different hand... if a guy marries a 7 and he or she shall we herself bypass and turns right into a 4 it could have an result on his state of arousal and attraction... yet maximum in all probability no longer his love.

2016-10-02 10:10:28 · answer #2 · answered by landin 4 · 0 0

Yes, they do notice, only they don't mention them until they feel like it's affecting their appearance. Men have a problem with their better halves loosing the looks that they married them for in the beginning. Only when they (men) tend to get out of shape, (beer bellies), they expect us (females) to deal with it knowing that time changes some things.

2006-08-22 08:54:59 · answer #3 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0 0

My husband thinks I'm "all that" and the only time he really ever notices a flaw is if I tell him about it, and believe me I never point them out.

2006-08-22 08:55:19 · answer #4 · answered by trainer53 6 · 0 0

A man who is in love never sees those types of flaws! When I look at my wife I see the most beautiful lady in the world! Does she have flaws? Don't we all? I don't see them, I only see her beauty that is mostly inside her!
Good question

2006-08-22 09:36:16 · answer #5 · answered by Ekimo 5 · 2 0

mine sure doesnt lol....i'll be like screaming oh my god i gained 5 pounds i have a huge pimple and look at these stretch marks..and he'll be like what??? lol...i dunno it depends some men are very critical of their women and look for things to pick on them about, some men wouldnt notice things if u jumped around naked in front of them for an hour....i think they notice it when we start saying hey my dress doesnt fit this year or hey i got more stretch marks..so were making it worse on ourselves by always being so critical of our bodies!

2006-08-22 08:50:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Do they have to?
REally, think about it, WE women are so
hypercritical of ourselves, forever
holding up that doctored photo of the latest
Oprah magazine or of Julia Roberts...we long to look perfect
to others on the outside, but in truth, our hair gets gray, or in need of tinting, our stockings run, our makeup smudges, we get strident during PMS....and on some days just want to shooot ourselves.....and you think they don't notice!?!
God bless every man who notices and loves us ...anyway!
Amen?!

2006-08-22 10:17:10 · answer #7 · answered by susieque 4 · 0 0

HAHAHAAAA!!

There is no such thing as "flaws"...........the people in magazines are ALL airbrushed AND computer enhanced.get a grip, people!!!!!

I work as a personal trainer, here is some free advice: go to the gym, and start eating right. A fit, healthy woman rarely ever thinks of trivial things like this, she is too busy wallowing in her strength and cut lines she has EARNED.

2006-08-22 09:04:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

I have often wondered this myself my husband tells me how beautiful i am even though i am eight months pregnant and huge so maybe he says it to make me feel better I don't know.I think men just don't say anything to the women they love to hurt their feelings.

2006-08-22 09:05:54 · answer #9 · answered by samwise25 4 · 0 0

my husband still says I am beautiful after 13 years and 3 kids. they say love is blind but I don't agree, it isn't blind...it sees all the flaws and loves them anyway.

2006-08-22 08:59:24 · answer #10 · answered by chattykatty 3 · 2 0

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