My boyfriend doesn't want to make love...just wants to have sex. How do I talk to him about my needs?

Question

We haven't had sex in almost three weeks. Just today we had sex, well actually he had sex. I just stood there. Now, he got his, but I am still left in the cold. I want to kiss him and be passionate with him, but now he's not in the mood anymore....what do I do? I am so frusterated!

Here is the hard part. We don't live together, and we both have roomates. Sometimes, it is hard for us to be together. So, we settle for a quickie here or there. I want more. I am tired of feeling like a quick lay.

Answer 1

Seduce him. Set the mood in your house. Candles, flowers, sexy lingerie. When he starts rushing, back off and tell him your in charge. Believe me, when you take over like this, he won't have any other choice but to give you some passion. He won't know what hit him. Plan this out really well. Satin sheets, the works. He'll want this done more often. When you are done with him, put the pressure on and tell him.... it's his turn next time. Make a game out of it.

Good luck.

Answer 2

If he's not ever concerned about you to begin with in that sense, then the obvious answer would be to leave him. If you're giving your all to make him happy and he's doing nothing but leech, then that's pretty F*cked up to me. If your intent is to remain with him, my only suggestion is to sit down with him, and slowly talk up to it, dont go right out and say it, but work your way into the problem until he realizes everything.

Answer 3

move on. there are plenty of guys who will give you some good lovin'

Answer 4

tell him if he doesnt give it to u the way u want it ur gonna have to drop it!!!!!

Answer 5

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