donna and stu split up after 6 months coz he cheated on her.
the girl (amy) who he cheated on donna knew donna was with stu and she with has just moved into the same street where donna lives and she is sleeping with donnas brother.
stu is now seeing helen a lass who donna works with.
she keeps asking me to help her out coz she hasnt got over stu yet and needs closure.
she has fallen out with helen (but helen and stu do seem to gel better when ive seen them) coz stu keeps coming into the shop where they work. she thinks helen is doing it becoz they never got on that well
she feels like she cant go home because she doesnt want to see the lass who is with her bro.
she cant afford to move out or get a new job(there arent that many fulltime jobs round here) so what should i advise her to do?
2006-08-22 08:27:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she doesnt want him back and she doesnt want to see him again. or that amy.
2006-08-22 08:43:01 · update #1
I wud console her and tell her 2get out and make herself 4get him!! try sitting down with her and writing out a list of pros and cons. give out points 2how big they r in the circumstance add up the score and pray that the cons outweigh the pros! after that there's not much more u can do, she needs 2get on with her life, and do it herself! hanging on to friends bcuz u want 2help them is not gunna do neone ne good. dont let her unhappiness ruin ur life 2. she's your mate and i think u shud tell her 2get on with her life, he obviously has! she needs 2b strong u just have 2remind her how strong she is.
believe me ive been in this situation ok. only i was helpin out my mate on testing her boyfriends ability 2stay faithful (while they were on a break) and he kissed me and i told her what happend bcuz she's my best mate. needless 2say she never got back with him, although she didnt really wanna b with him.
dont worry about it so much, it'll all b alright in the end!
just watch and c!
2006-08-22 09:23:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry cant help you out with that saga ...... I lost the plot about half way when Donna was screwin Stu's brother,or was it when Helen and Amy got a job together & started tryin it on .... er no wait a minute ...... was Stu seein his brother ...... errrrrrrrrr.............Goodnight
2006-08-22 10:43:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she really needs the job and cannot move she has to harden herself and forget about the guy - he cheated didnt he, why does she think he wouldnt do it again? anyway, it will depend on whether he still loves because if he doesnt she will keep suffering. basically, she should shut him from her mind and concentrate on her job.
2006-08-22 08:39:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg u could wright a book about your friends i have watched soapthat werent so full of crapp that why we all need to mind our own bussiness and let other live there own lifes... try it!~! LOL
2006-08-22 08:38:17 · answer #4 · answered by Msdeb gee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to grow up and you are best to keep out of it!
2006-08-22 10:27:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you write scrips for soap operas??
u need to get a dog it'll be much easier to look after then that lot!
2006-08-22 08:35:58 · answer #6 · answered by pooonmywellies 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your friend is just really hurt and needs time to sort herself out. I would say that she does not know what she wants herself. u just need to be there for her.
2006-08-22 09:25:45 · answer #7 · answered by lorri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who gives a damn. just here for the points
2006-08-22 10:02:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay all that confused the sh it outta me... um tell them all to get a life
2006-08-22 08:39:47 · answer #9 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat
2006-08-22 10:55:16 · answer #10 · answered by kdjcfc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋