and never meeting them in person?
2006-08-22 08:27:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Yes, I'm going through that right now!!! It CAN happen... only difference between me and you is that I'm meeting my soulmate this weekend after 3 months of talking by email, phone, msn.... Good luck!!
2006-08-22 08:35:14 · answer #1 · answered by Loving Life 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can be drawn to a persons personality or maybe this person is always there when you need them Everyone has a slightly different definition of love. You are the one who makes the rules of your heart and mind so why can you not be in love?! Maybe you choose to let yourself fall for this person as you know that there is not physical love there, once your heart and mind belong to someone you can get your feelings destroyed but as you only have a mind connection you have alot less to lose, maybe your mind is giving you the green light because you have a greater safety net ..You are the only one that truly knows. I hope this helps.
2006-08-22 15:41:50 · answer #2 · answered by comission90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. When you only communicate through e-mail, you are falling in love with a fantasy. Make sure you meet the person face to face, that's when you can really find out what they're like (and vice versa).
Over 90% of the way we communicate is through body language.
2006-08-22 16:24:22 · answer #3 · answered by Jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's possible to develop some kind of feelings through email after writing with someone after a good while, but I don't think you can fall in love with that person if you've not even met or spent qualtiy time with them in person.
2006-08-22 16:13:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that people express themselves in different ways. While a person may be able to express him/herself very well through emails, that same person may have difficulty expressing their thoughts, feelings and ideas face-to-face.
I would advise using caution when developing feelings for someone you have never met in person. You can always get a better feel for someone by meeting them face to face.
2006-08-22 15:41:28 · answer #5 · answered by tru_til_da_end 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is very possible to fall in love with an image of that person we hold in our minds.
Whether that image is the person in reality - can only be proved by talking or better meeting them in person.
2006-08-22 15:34:17 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think it is...and I know because it happened to me. I finally was able tomeet him after talking to him on the phone, email and messenger for 9 mos. It does happen and it's the best feeling in the world because you fall in love with the person for who they are, not only because he or she is "hot". As long as your are both honest with each other you will get to know the person from the inside out and see who they really are!
2006-08-22 15:41:03 · answer #7 · answered by just me being me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I e-mailed a couple of people on here and when they e-mailed back the things they said made me feel comfortable,but I never fell in love with anyone through an e-mail only a friendship started
2006-08-22 15:35:15 · answer #8 · answered by Blucontrell Esminosa-Garcia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, not really 'in love' - you have to meet someone, and really get to know them well for that to happen - otherwise you're 'in love' with an image, a shadow - not the whole person.
2006-08-22 15:36:33 · answer #9 · answered by mad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes if you are in love with the thought of love but it's a road to nowhere. What is it you want, romance or correspondence?
Separate the two now or you could find yourself a victim.
2006-08-22 15:56:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋