I have been with him 4 about 2 1/2 years and things are starting to get bad , I am not sure weather to give up or just deal with problems and stick around
2006-08-22 08:12:47 · 19 answers · asked by Amoreya R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't deal with the problems- fix them, and if you can't or don't want to than you should not be in the relationship.
2006-08-22 08:18:55 · answer #1 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont really know how to help without knowing what your main issues are, but i would say if you feel like you dont feel the same way about him as you did before the problems started, then yes i would begin the process of getting out of the relationship.
2006-08-22 08:20:44 · answer #2 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. talk to him about the problems and what needs to be done.
2. Counseling may help
3. If not you need to move on with your life
If you love the guy it is worth seeking a little help in it. But first just talk to the guy...
2006-08-22 08:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by b_fab115 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself, is this relationship worth the time to get help saving it? You can work on the problems together, or you both can go for counseling, are their children involved? Sometimes only you know what is best for yourself.
2006-08-22 08:24:46 · answer #4 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fix if you can, if not get out,if your That much in love deal with it,have a problem here with my friend she can ask but she cant gave,right now is the 5th time and the last time for me to go back,the lieing and using have push me out
2006-08-22 08:27:12 · answer #5 · answered by tay3r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you should deal with the problems because things are just going to get worse...what i suggest is to talk to a counselor that will help a lot or try talking to him about whats happening and that he needs to change
2006-08-22 08:20:48 · answer #6 · answered by jazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if everything was peaches and cream something will still be wrong the best thing you can do is take all your concerns to god because no-matter how much you try to talk it over its going to be a shouting match
2006-08-22 08:23:51 · answer #7 · answered by Evil W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is one you are going to have to figure out for yourself. But if you really feel like things are getting to the point of no return, and you just can't see yourself with this guy anymore then maybe it is time to move on..remember..life is too short to be un-happy..
2006-08-22 08:19:22 · answer #8 · answered by motorcyclelovinmama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well address the problem first and see if it can be fixed. if not then move on if you have to. dont waist your time or anyone elses.
2006-08-22 08:24:30 · answer #9 · answered by starr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 2.5 years you should be able to tell if he's worth it to you. Since you're still with him he probably is and you should do your best to keep it going.
2006-08-22 08:20:08 · answer #10 · answered by Dan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋