my fiance is constintly asking to "stick it in the butt" we have tried a couple times but its so uncomfortable for me it hurts way more then it feels good! why are guys so into it and how can i enjoy it too?
2006-08-22 08:06:44 · 5 answers · asked by TEMPTRESS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We like it so much because it means that you are willing to do anything to pleasure us. Plus it does feel really good, so hot and warm, mmmmm. It also sounds like he isn't quite doing it right, slow and easy is the key, hit me up, I'll show ya. Michigan rocks!
2006-08-22 08:18:59 · answer #1 · answered by darrell4613 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to use a lot of lubercation. Go out a buy a special cream for sexual pleasure (at a sex store most likely) and apply a lot of it before trying again. Also try using different positions, a new angle may relieve some of the pain.
2006-08-22 15:14:57 · answer #2 · answered by Karina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only ONE answer for this question...
If you don't like it, DON'T DO IT, PERIOD!
Seems this fella doesn't have the slightest respect for you. Don't get more lube, don't try new positions, do not allow someone to hurt you.
Sex is about pleasuring one another (at least when a REAL MAN like me services a girl) not hurting your partner (notice the word "Partner" and what that means) for your own sick pleasure.
Write me, let's talk about how a woman should be treated.
2006-08-22 15:19:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Using lubrication may make it feel better, but just saying no can make you feel better. Some guys that would like to stick in your butt may just have more homoerotic fantasies than most. As far as I am concerned that is an exit not an entrance, unless my partner wants it there, then that is her choice
2006-08-22 15:17:32 · answer #4 · answered by tat2jug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
KY Jelly , or another good lubricant. Then go slow and try to become as relaxed as possible.
2006-08-22 15:23:18 · answer #5 · answered by kristycordeaux 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋