2006-08-22 08:04:39 · 16 answers · asked by bodylanguage19p 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Love is a funny emotion, in that, it is as strong un-returned as it is returned. Time is the best cure for love. I'm sorry that this person doesn't feel the same about you, but perhaps it is best, for you to realize that there is no hope, of him ever feeling the same. This will hurt, as love often hurts, but it will also act as a catalyst in your heart, and make it easier for you to move on with your life, which you owe to your self.
2006-08-22 08:18:58 · answer #1 · answered by Blissbug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very hard. It could be a very long process also. All you can do, is keep away. And let yourself gradually get over the other person. Just keep yourself busy, that way you don't have to think about him/her. And whatever you do, don't jump into a rebound relationship. It's not fair to the other person. It's like putting a bandage over your wound. The new person being the bandage, the person you love being the wound. Take things slow, they will get better.
2006-08-22 15:18:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you've gotten some good answers..listen i am 30 years old and my very first boyfriend was from when i was 14yrs - 19yrs, i thought i would marry this guy and spend the rest of my life with i him, i didn't know anything else..sad to say, he was older and met someone older than both of us with 2 kids already..to this day he is still with her with 2 more kids...i have moved on, am married have 2 kids and have accomplished everything i ever told him 15 yrs ago that I would. he is still the same little loser as before, but you know what i still love him and i will love him forever, our love was honest, innocent, pure & real. we didn't love each other for money, kids or marriage..you know what i mean? it has taken a looooonnnnnggggg time for me to realize that him and i were not MEANT to be together, i am meant to be where i am today WITHOUT him. trust me if they don't love you won't ever make them love you.
2006-08-22 15:22:37 · answer #3 · answered by daisy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play games, just give up on him and move on. Keep yourself busy with things that make you happy - soon enough you'll realize how wrong he was for you. Also, a gal who is confident, busy with her own activities, and self-assured is a DEFINITE turn-on for guys...you'll increase your chances of meeting someone new if you give off the aura of being happy. Just don't go for another jerky guy next time - the way to avoid this is to GET TO KNOW YOURSELF - this way you'll know right away if the guy can give you what you're looking for, and vice versa. Good luck!
2006-08-22 15:15:30 · answer #4 · answered by Lori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay busy and focus on other things. Don't look for someone new to love. If you just let things happen someone good will come when you least expect it.
2006-08-22 17:21:41 · answer #5 · answered by luvz2luv_ya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply understand that love should be reciprocal. If there is no two way connection with another, then you are not in love with them. You may be infatuated or lustful for, but not in love. I also find it very easy to not love someone, who has no feelings for me in return.
2006-08-24 01:14:22 · answer #6 · answered by judson d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find events, activities, etc. that take your mind off of loving someone who has hurt you. The only thing that heals a broken heart is time.
2006-08-22 15:11:43 · answer #7 · answered by cole h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you cannot just stop loving someone that easily but you can slowly try to get over that person by keeping your mind on things that make you happy and staying busy.
2006-08-22 15:11:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know...that is a good question...Maybe finding someone to love who does love you will solve the problem.
2006-08-22 15:12:41 · answer #9 · answered by James T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you love someone, i don't think you could not love that individual. you may not care for the person as you did before; however, the love will always be there...
2006-08-22 15:16:12 · answer #10 · answered by Dizzie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋