Never really had any major money problems with him before.
2006-08-22 08:02:42 · 35 answers · asked by FERGIEM 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ask your new man what he thinks about it.
2006-08-22 08:08:26 · answer #1 · answered by chevy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont lend him any money what did he do for u if he broke up wit u dont lend it to him i guess he doesnt know what he had lost and he should deal with it if u broke up wit him there had to be a reason and why is he asking u for money if he broke up with u he should think what he is doingand if u lend him it he will take advantage of u and ur monhey thats ur choice but this is mine e-mail me naspar21@yahoo.com if u need someone to talk 2
2006-08-22 08:12:42 · answer #2 · answered by naspar21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how much, depends on when he says he will get it back. depends on if you guys will be in the same area. in my experience friends and money don't mix well because there aren't concrete terms of repayment. however if he's a stand up guy and you can part with the dough without it hurting you then why not. if this is normal behavior (him borrowing) then i wouldn't. hope this helps
2006-08-22 08:13:20 · answer #3 · answered by Fenris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on if you remained friends after the break-up. Do you feel like he'll return the money borrowed? Listen to your gut
2006-08-22 08:09:15 · answer #4 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. Tell him that when the relationship ended so did the money tree. Sounds like he is using u dear! Cut the cord and move on with your life. Good luck.
2006-08-22 09:11:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhh is that a trick question? if not HELL NO HE IS A MAN HE SHOULD BE ABLE TO TAKE CARE OF HIMSELF!!!!! not buming off his ex girlfriend or wife which ever ya are. and besides men should be takeing care of the women not the other weay around hunny trust me been there done that ain't going back.
2006-08-22 08:09:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you should lend it to him if you guys haven't talked in a while but if you're still friends then you could come up with some agreement. it's all if you trust him or not.
2006-08-22 08:09:15 · answer #7 · answered by iamsamsamiam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it would depend on the reason he needs the money...if it's to take his new squeeze on a cruise....NO WAY! If he's having financial difficulties and you know he's good to pay you back...go for it
2006-08-22 08:10:09 · answer #8 · answered by hummingbird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever happened to being nice and giving someone the benifit of the doubt...
Maybe he is really in a jam... I would say at least listen to his side... and follow your gut instinct.
2006-08-22 08:10:23 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Why would he now be calling you and asking you for money? What does your boyfriend think about it?
2006-08-22 08:10:12 · answer #10 · answered by Melinda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO!!! If it is truly over then let it be that money should not be given to him. Tell his *** to get a damn job or a loan and leave u alone.
2006-08-22 08:11:40 · answer #11 · answered by ndemby05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋