Me and my guy friend (i'm a girl) were talking about it, but kind of in a joking way. Kind of...
We're both single...hmm...do u think it's ok?
2006-08-22 07:56:21 · 18 answers · asked by Smellydix4Bush 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Nah, b/c even if you both agree not to allow your feelings to get involved some one will get hurt in the end, and it may ruin your friendship. If your both willing to have sex with each other then you both must have some kind of feelings for each other, so why not think about starting a relationship which to me works well when your friends already.
2006-08-22 08:06:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going into sexual relationships are really serious for your sake especially with all the diseases including (HIV) being so strong. It would be great if young people would think about waiting until they are in a serious relationship (possibly marriage) before being involved on this basis. Give yourselves time to live before putting your life in danger this way.
2006-08-22 17:42:26 · answer #2 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it is ok as long as you and him are comfortable with each other. me and my husband used to be friends growing up. we were the same way. and look we are married now. we just joked about it our first time too. but it was great.
2006-08-22 15:20:26 · answer #3 · answered by Melinda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you both dont want any strings attached it is ok, other wise if either one of you have feelings for the other, and dont want to get hurt, then i would say it is a bad idea.
2006-08-22 15:05:57 · answer #4 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok as long as you both know it's just sex. Unfortunately, once you cross that bridge it's kinda hard to be the same.
2006-08-22 15:03:38 · answer #5 · answered by bec3tiny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok if both of you can stay detatched, but if one of you starts to get a little clinggy then u could be in for a bumpy ride. dont give any signal that it is going to happen again, unless you want some thing more. good luck.
2006-08-22 15:30:24 · answer #6 · answered by tashton2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its called friends with benefits!1 Its perfectly fine. Use protection and know and understand the rules beforehand.
2006-08-22 15:06:13 · answer #7 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah as long as the both of you are comfortable with it and don't think it will change your friendship in a drastic way then go for it.
2006-08-22 15:03:35 · answer #8 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will surly get in troubles in the future, I suggest you two to get married and then you do what you wish.
It's really bad to have sex with somebody other than your partner (wife or husband)
2006-08-22 16:28:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ITS ALWAYS BETTER TO WAIT FOR SOMEONE THAT YOU ARE SERIOUS WITH, EVEN BETTER IF YOU'RE MARRIED, WHAT IF AFTER YOU GUYS START SLEEPING WITH EACH OTHER, YOU (AS A GIRL) AND BEING MORE SENSITIVE FALL IN LOVE WITH YOUR FRIEND, YOU START SEEING HIM AS SOMETHING MORE THAN JUST A FRIEND, AND WHAT IF JUST SEES YOU AS A SEXUAL OBJECT, YOU UNDERSTAND?? ITS JUST MY OPINION AS A GIRL. I HOPE IT WORKS!!! AND I HOPE I DONT SOUND TOO CORNY!!!
2006-08-22 15:07:07 · answer #10 · answered by Juliet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋