I try to initiate like the doggy style and he goes lymph after 30secs, how come? Then his favorite is me on top all the time, and he never likes the missionary style which I want to stare into his eyes while making love. I'm concerned that our love-making will be a broken record spinning over and over again. I initiate things and he just lies on his back like a flusy. What advice can some guys give as to why the doggy style makes u lymph after 30secs and what I can do to make our love making something to look forward too.
2006-08-22 07:54:46 · 8 answers · asked by sunny d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, it seems like there are two possible things going on.
One, it doesn't turn him on.
Some people are turned on in some sexual positions, and others arn't, and yet some love every one of them. If he isn't enjoying it then he will not want to do it. I'd suggest talking to him, not in bed, about your reasons why you want to try them, and your personal concerns about your sex life.
Second, and most likely, he is uncomfortable in other positions.
For a long time my lady wasn't comfortable in some positions, for us the big one was doggystyle. She just didn't feel comfortable knowing I could look down and see her "back side", which means she would neither enjoy the position, nor want to be in it. A few weeks later, she was comfortable with the idea, and liked it. We've moved on to trying alot of new things.
If its the second reason, I suggest trying to get him more comfortable. If anything give it time, he could be uncomfortable for many different reasons. Being uncomfortable can make you lose an erection very quickly, which seems like the problem. So talk it over with him.
As always, communication is key to keeping things like this comfortable, and fun.
2006-08-22 08:06:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really is yet another vote for waiting. in the journey that your boyfriend is pressuring you, tell him you're going to await sex. per chance a three hundred and sixty 5 days, per chance 3 years, you're literally not positive. If he receives disillusioned, you comprehend he's no longer into you, he's basically into getting you into mattress.
2016-11-26 23:19:21 · answer #2 · answered by prickett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a tatoo of your ex on your back? LOL. Must be something wrong with him. ALL straight guys like doggie.
2006-08-22 08:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by Master Kenobi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a book on postions...There are some great ones out there. There is one…I don’t remember the name…but it has one page for him and one for her it is pretty neat, I want to get it someday as a gift for my husban.
2006-08-22 08:04:41 · answer #4 · answered by lightthenight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what can i say?if you want to make your sex life better.here is a tip 1.you see dick2.you put dick in your mouth.men like those things.tell him that his dick is the bigest thing you have ever seen ....use your mind.
2006-08-22 08:11:21 · answer #5 · answered by shy annalise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, I have no advice to offer. I ahve never heard of such a thing.
2006-08-22 08:07:15 · answer #6 · answered by RedEye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"lymph"? Hahaha
2006-08-22 08:04:20 · answer #7 · answered by RoseXXX 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend is really really lazy
2006-08-22 08:17:02 · answer #8 · answered by michelle m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋