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Question

my daughter is 13 she likes this 16 year old boy,I won't let her date or see boys until she is 16.she said that I'm a hypicrite because my husband is three years older then me but we're both in our thirties.I told her there's a differance she's just a kid.she won't talk to me about it.What do I do to keep her away from him.

Answer 1

She will always find a way to see the boy. The more you forbid her that the more she will try to do the opposite. Just invite the boy to your place so you can meet him and see what kind of guy he is and what are his ideas of the relationship with ur daughter.

Answer 2

the more you fight w/ her about it the more she will rebel maybe you can let her have him over to the house to watch a move or for supper i didnt let my boys date til they were 16 but they would ivite girls over to watch tv or play video games or they would have party s here and play music and dance that way we were here to over see things so they were not getting in to trouble also tell her that age matters when you are under 20 my hsband is 31/2 yrs older than me and my oldest son is 6 yrs older than his wife and that age matter because matureity matters good luck take it from some one whos raise 3 son passed the teen yrs choose your battle cause there is alot out there when you have a teen good luck also we let the boys ivite girls to teen things @ the church my husband is the youth leader so we were always there

Answer 3

unless ur around her 24/7 u cant she can secetly go out with him and stuff like that. When i was 13 the same thing happened between my mom and me if that boy likes her or somthing they can and most likely secretly go out so if i were u id just let her but make her have him meet u

Answer 4

why wont you let her date until shes 16? thats kind of stupid.