What should I do?

Question

There is this guy that i really like. We are friends and everything but i wish that he would ask me to a school dance or sonething. I REALLY like him. But we are in the same homeroom and lockers aare next to eatchother and he'll sit next to me in computer class because his bame is right after mine in abc order. I don't know if he likes me though. He looks deeply into my eyes and we laugh alot. I don't know what I should do though...

I would ask him, but last year, he found out i liked him and he never said anything. his friend said he wasn't interested but she's betrayed me before and i hate her. I really don't like asking. I'm very very afraid of rejection.

Oh and im 13 almost 14. In my last year of middle school

and...sorry for all the typos...

even more details,lol. sorry if im bugging u. But for the whole thing where his "freind" said he didnt like me, thats was many many months ago. Like the beginning of last school year. And him and that girl that i hate arnt even really frined. Him and i have become much closer since then. He's came over my house and he's met my parents and everything. So sorry if this all sound like crap.

and when i said frind i ment friends

Answer 1

Why don't you ask if he's going to the dance? Maybe he invited someone already or maybe he thinks that you were already invited. Nobody likes to be rejected, maybe that's why he hasn't asked you.

Answer 2

Honestly....Just ask him to the dance. Some guys aren't comfortable doing stuff like that and once you make the first move, he'll follow your lead. Don't make it a big deal and don't make it awkward, just ask him as a friend and tell him you are all going in a group. Once you guys hang out on a more personal level you can take that next step in your relationship with him.

Answer 3

After I posted my answer, then I read the other crap that you had posted. I hate to be mean sweetie but how can we help you if you already know what you should do. If you don't like someone, don't you try to not talk to them and not be bothered with them? It seems as if he doesn't like you so don't talk to him don't bother him. I know you have to come in contact with him everyday, just leave it at that. Act as if he doesn't exist.
You are only 13 there are a whole lot other 8th graders that you can like and who will like you back.

Plain and simple forget about it.

Answer 4

if you like this guy then ask him out the year is 2006 you can do that its no crazy. i dont know how old you are but if your really young then maybe you should hold off the school year is just starting there are probably going to be alot jore guys to see or want to date you dont need to break all there hearts lol

Answer 5

The problem you people have you don't seem to love genuinely. True love is not dragging someone to go bed with you.

True love is accepting the person as he or she is. Love also means you should be transparent and sincere. Now if you are not just lusting after that person, be open to him tell him that you sincerely love him.

This love should be pure love without strings attached.

Answer 6

go for it you will never find out if you dint make a move.
life is about taken chances . if it don't work out it don't work out at least you took the chance to find out . next time if their is you will be prepared and up for the challenge why? because your not going to be afraid anymore . you've learned to take chances.
i hope this advice helps you.
yours truly
teeboop.

Answer 7

Honey, if you want him to take you to a dance, ask him to go with you.
There is no golden rule that says the "guy" has to do the asking.

Answer 8

girl life is too short. learn to get with the times and go for what'cha you know because if you don't someone else will. ask the boy out.

Answer 9

flirt it up and see where that takes you !!! honestly you never know especailly if you dont know him all that well but just know him as an aquantance

Answer 10

be patient if he is into you he will ask you try to make it easy on him tho drop hints etc.