so i ve never had an orgasm ever..why not? i mean i have sex and it starts to feel really good but then nothing happens the feeling goes away? what is going on
2006-08-22 07:09:20 · 12 answers · asked by angel1566789 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
you and your partner should read "She comes first"
2006-08-22 07:23:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many different stages of an orgasm. I sometimes get this where it is almost there and then it goes away. Try new positions and things to help. Every girl is different and you just have to find the right way. Try to relax during sex, if your tense and stressed it may not work. Also, go to the bathroom before you have sex.
2006-08-22 14:41:46 · answer #2 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In reality. Rarely an orgasm happens when a person is in there early 20s or late teens. Sex can still be great but when your having sex with someone try being on top and when he is in you, shift your body downward then that will rub on your clitoris to help you achieve better sex. Hope this works
2006-08-22 14:21:39 · answer #3 · answered by big pappy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl buy a book! Everybody's body is different, but you need clitoral stimulation and/or stimulation to your G-spot. Most women cannot achieve orgasm by sex alone. You read a bit about your own body and experiment by yourself. Then you can tell your lover what does it for you!
2006-08-22 14:19:01 · answer #4 · answered by silverthorshammer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you put too much emphasis on having a orgasim it won't come, the more you think about it, it goes away. that's how it is for me at least, the more i want it and think about it, the harder it is for me to get. have you tried using toys/vibrators? I would try getting a vibrator, place it by your clit and play with it for a little bit, that should get you fired up real quick...be comfortable with yourself, find your g-spot inside of you and rub that...after 2 minutes of that you'll be in heaven and taking potty breaks all day! have fun!
2006-08-22 14:18:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took me several years to be able to get off. I found out that a big part of me not being able to reach a climax had to do with the fact that I was not sure of myself and I thought to much about what my partner wanted. When I just did what felt best to me and decided I was happy with my body it was easy. And I promise that your partner will enjoy sex much more if you are really enjoying it.
2006-08-22 14:31:49 · answer #6 · answered by Christa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As someone already mentioned, a vibrator is a good tool to explore your body. It's good to find out what turns you on by self-exploration. How else can you tell partner what works for you.
2006-08-22 14:28:02 · answer #7 · answered by Fraulein 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
orgasm
2006-08-22 14:19:24 · answer #8 · answered by doctor asho 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
suggestion:
go buy a vibrator. lock yourself in your house until you make it happen. once you get it going, you will be able to conjure one up no problem! you just need to figure out how to do it.
2006-08-22 14:20:47 · answer #9 · answered by ForroChe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should try by you're self... figure out what you like, then tell the other person what you like and to keep doing it as long as it takes ;o)
or just get head... everyone likes head.x.
2006-08-22 14:18:16 · answer #10 · answered by penfold 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to change your partner. what you are saying sounds really frustrating..
2006-08-22 14:23:53 · answer #11 · answered by einsteinliam2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋