I am a heterosexual woman who enjoys to watch porn. That is not the issue though. I like to watch when women get treated like sh*t. Rape, abuse. It really turns me on!
2006-08-22 06:33:52 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
No, I do not think you are sick at all. My wife and I both enjoy certain amounts of porn, and both of us have our own preferences.
To keep this answer short (email me for a more detailed response) if porn was created in order to help feed male fantasies; showing them certain things they could probably not get (or face up to) in reality, then the same could go for for women. Porn is, aside from being considered vulgar, a relatively "safe" outlet to unabtainable fantasies. There is nothing wrong by being turned on by things we can't justify; the "wrong" comes in when one actually acts on it.
So I wouldn't say you are weird or crazy or anything like that at all. In fact, personnaly, I would consider you to be a much more "in tune" and open person for admitting this, and hope you don't feel bad or any regret in the aftermath, which often cheapens the whole experience.
2006-08-22 06:57:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you are not sick
many ppl have the same interest like you
bdsm,sub/dom,ect
its exciting becouse its not the every day life thing,its something different ,like a twisted faity tail
its another sexual fantasy,thats all and its turns you on couse you cant ask your partner to try it out,thinking you are sick,perverted or something of the sorts.May be you should talk to them and expiriment.there is nothing and should be nothing shamefull about your sexuallity
just make sure you are safe.Every game is fun till you get hurt.Dont go on the net looking for stranger for answers.Play with ppl you trust only.
hope i helped at least a bit.sorry if i am not detailed enought,i think you get the big picture thou
2006-08-22 13:53:13 · answer #2 · answered by SunSet 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are not sick in any way...almost every woman I have known has admitted to a rape fantasy..it is a common fantasy. You ought to talk about it with your partner..and indulge it in a role play situation..make sure you know and trust your partner that he will not go too far. People have rape fantasies...spanking fantasies....bondage fantasies....Whipping fantasies......Discipline fantasies...Explore your fanrasies..they are a part of who you are...but mind me well make sure that when you do indulge these type of fantasies you can trust the person with whom you are role playing...Pick a "safe word" that if it gets too painful or intense you use the word and everything stops........good luck and enjoy.
2006-08-22 14:05:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I do think you have issues. Many people who have been sexually abused or mentally/verbally mistreated find a release in these type of images. You need to take a good look at yourself and try to understand where these desires come from. They could get worse and start effecting your life in a negative way.
2006-08-22 13:44:24 · answer #4 · answered by rhonda y 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you are sick i think that you just need to talk to someone about the way that you feel about a woman being done that way because it may lead into other things. i mean you never know maybe you were done that was as a child and you just dont rememeber it happening to you, or you could have since it happen to someone you know and you were force to act as if you enjoyed what you saw, however before i can jugde anyone i think that you should just go talk to someone that has a little bit more knowledge about why you like what you are watching.
2006-08-22 13:43:55 · answer #5 · answered by cute as can be 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, look at it this way, if you were so abnormal, would there even be porn that showed that kind of stuff? obviously there is a market for it...
seems to me that everybody has different turn-ons... is it a smaller percentage of the population that gets turned on by that...? probably... does it make you sick....? i dont know... but if you are, then alot more people out there are too
2006-08-22 13:41:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fantasy is just that; fantasy. If you just enjoy watching knowing that no one is really getting hurt, then that is OK. You can't help what you like, just remember that a fantasy in your head always has a good ending. A fantasy that is played out does not.
2006-08-22 13:43:32 · answer #7 · answered by oconnorct1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Genio Atrapado. You know what you like, don't listen to other's narrowmindess. If no one is getting hurt then enjoy it! You could find far worse things that turn you on.
***Just on the whole God comment***
If God exists he would be happy that you aren't hindered by socieity's view on what is "Normal" in the bedroom and he would be happy that you are liberal and a free thinker and have the courage to talk openly about it!!!!
2006-08-22 13:41:34 · answer #8 · answered by ηιgнт ѕтαя 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As long as you are not acting out your fantasies on unwilling partners, I don't see anything sick about it. It's not my cup of tea but to each their own. The only danger is that if you immerse yourself in these kind of things for to long, you will be driven to act them out. Just be careful.
2006-08-22 13:43:23 · answer #9 · answered by cathcoug 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U r not sick. U cannot choose what u like, is just an internal feeling that u cannot control, and that's more than OK. As long as u don't hurt anyone, u r not sick at all.
2006-08-22 13:39:54 · answer #10 · answered by Genio Atrapado 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋