even tho he has not done anything for me to feel that way. i get mad if i see new girls that he doesnt know on his myspace. i look thro his phone calls..Why would i feel this way?
2006-08-22 06:01:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Because you are a controlling, manipulative biatch
2006-08-22 06:08:20 · answer #1 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would say you feel this way because you dont have enough confidence in yourself. Being jealous is the biggest turn off, it puts extra stress on any relationship and the other party feel they need to justify everything to you. Remember back before you were boyfriend and girlfriend.....you both wanted to be together....he didnt want any other girl....he wanted you....Now you are boyfriend and girlfriend why do you think that has changed. Loving someone doesnt mean you own them. You have to accept he is an individual, just like you are. You have to stop being jealous or you will end up driving him away.
2006-08-28 04:51:38 · answer #2 · answered by rightio 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
lol i do the same with my bf's myspace but i have reasons,and i don't get along with any girls that are his friends, all of them try to brake us up! it's not a problem, you kinda have to be like that with guys, some are pigs and would cheat on you in a second, but some are trusting, you prolly just feel insecure, which is understandable, maybe he's not showing you that you can trust him all the way, but in a relationship you really need to be trusting, if he tells you your beautiful and your the only girl for him than you should be trusting, and if he tells you the truth about things, like if a girl hit on him, and he backed away, just stuff like that.
2006-08-22 13:22:55 · answer #3 · answered by LaVitanza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you have some insecurities in your relationship!. If he hasn't done anything, have you? A guilty conscience will drive you crazy!!! Or, you may be looking for a reason to break up with him. When you look for things, you are looking for ways to make yourself mad especially on MySpace!!!!!!!!!!!! You may just need to sit down and talk to him about it. Clear your mind. He may have the answer.........
2006-08-22 13:18:09 · answer #4 · answered by miss l 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, perhaps you have been burned in the past or have been told/seen that men can't be trusted. Either way, acknowledge that this is your problem (you said he gives you no reason not to trust him) and when you feel that way (jealous, untrusting, etc.) don't take it out on him. Just think to yourself "I feel this way, but there is no reason to. I will not let irrational feelings control me or destroy my relationship" and let it go. The only time you should treat him as someone who can't be trusted is if he shows you that he can't be. After all, how would you feel if someone treated you with distrust (snooped through your phone calls, etc.) and you did nothing to deserve it?
2006-08-22 13:13:32 · answer #5 · answered by blue 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are a paranoid biatch who is looking for troubly. The girls on his myspace are probably in other countries far away from his wandering wang. If he finds out you have been tapping and filtering through his phone calls he will probably set you up with a fake one of him having phone sex with one of his skanks, you will hear the unmistakeable slapping of them pleasing themselves. DONT DO IT ANY MORE
2006-08-28 23:10:23 · answer #6 · answered by alias_47 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It Can mean either 1 of 3 things
1. You are Jelious
2. You are insecure about your self
3. You had an exx- cheat on you, so you by habit think this 1 is
2006-08-29 17:30:27 · answer #7 · answered by Frank S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-28 03:46:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound a little over controlling.... Going through his phone calls..... You should trust him if you love him, specaily if he never has done anything yet. You might be too scared of losing him.
2006-08-22 13:11:04 · answer #9 · answered by Brittany 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you can't truly trust him for whatever reason then you don't really love him. love and trust go together. as for you going through his personal stuff that seems like a self confidence issue. you need to start to appreciate your self and trust in you before you can ever truly love someone else.
2006-08-22 13:51:45 · answer #10 · answered by :)*taurus tease*(: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is a hard sickness to overcome, if you can be trusted, try to trust him also. Do you have a guilty conscience, has he done something to warrant this suspicion
2006-08-29 21:25:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋