What's your suggestion for this... we have nothing in common... we have 2 sons... how in the world would I get out of this with anything other than settling for these pathetic standards of life in Utah with her and her whole family for the rest of my life??? SERIOUS answers only.
2006-08-22 05:57:23 · 9 answers · asked by rjakjr 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
OK, I've told her more than a couple times if possible England, more possible Washington state (where I'm from but NO it wouldn't be going there for my family it would be going there because I've been to just about all 49 other states and there is no comparison with Washington state), I know I couldn't leave my sons but her and her family are human migraines.
2006-08-22 06:39:01 · update #1
If your not happy then get out of the marriage, but don't bale on your Sons they need their Dad in there life. As far as her family, you divorce her you divorce them
2006-08-22 06:05:36 · answer #1 · answered by Granny 1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL!!! Okay. Now that that's out of the way. ( You really did crack me up. ) I'm not from Utah but I've been there so I've got an idea what's there. Don't run out on your wife and kids. Maybe a move would be in order. But don't go to California, New York
( State or City ) Florida, or Indiana. Relatives can wreck a marriage. Communities of inbred morons can also do the same.
2006-08-22 06:10:07 · answer #2 · answered by vanamont7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want a divorce, or do you love your wife and just want to get away from her family? I lived in Utah for a time too, it gets pretty crazy. You just have to say, what the hell and do your own thing. And people who grew up in Utah NEVER LEAVE. Start looking for a job in another state, or don't worry so much about the standards people in utah set.
2006-08-22 06:06:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Through your inability to even form a coherent statement it seems perfectly normal for you to be in the spot your in.
You say you have nothing in common but your kids. Did you not know this was the case when you joined your lives? Have you ever heard of divorce and alimony and child support? Have you ever heard of suite cases and modes of transportation? How could you move somewhere? Get a divorce, put your stuff in a bag, get on a Greyhound and go to state with a different name as the one you're in now. Sound easy? Get a move on, loser!
2006-08-22 06:14:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-01 00:10:41 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now ... are you wanting to move away with your wife and children? I guess if you are then look for a state you would want to move to and then look in the help wanted adds... see if you can find a job and home first... now if you are trying to leave them all... good luck...
2006-08-22 06:12:49 · answer #6 · answered by Tricia P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont change youre life for them.. remember you have 2 sons . do youre best to deal with them, you dont have to like them. or respect them.. just let them be a miserable as they want.. by you staying around and enjoying youre sons, you will make them very unhappy, let them leave... good luck.
2006-08-22 06:06:21 · answer #7 · answered by mia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a job in a different state then you move there...
2006-08-22 06:05:46 · answer #8 · answered by cherry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have nothing in common why marry her in the first place??? do people actually have relationships before getting married nowadays?! unless of course you married her coz of her looks.
2006-08-22 06:08:28 · answer #9 · answered by tjstarbe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋