How did you end up having sex with the same sex for the first time? Did you know you were bi/gay before you had sex or did it all just happen suddenly?
For me it was all of a sudden :)
2006-08-22 05:56:30 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Truth or dare? That was how mine first started. Later on we just decided to stop playing the game!
2006-08-22 07:39:24 · answer #1 · answered by mgrboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most bisexuals and homosexuals have felt an attraction towards members of the same sex for a long time, and normally have been aware of this attraction since childhood.
A lot of people with same sex attraction have tried to deny/suppress their feelings, usually under pressure from family/friends, religion, and/or society.
It is also possible for a heterosexual to experience a bicurious phase, have a same sex encounter and then never again due to not liking it. These people are still heterosexual.
Bisexuals can feel even more confused when they experience attraction towards both genders. This confusion is not a disorder - its merely caused by the lack of a visible bisexual community.
2006-08-22 13:11:01 · answer #2 · answered by nemesis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always knew that I was gay. I would just like to know, how can anyone just all of a sudden have sex with the same gender and not know it before hand? Were you straight and then gay or were you an asexual before that?
2006-08-22 13:51:01 · answer #3 · answered by justincausejustintime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I (like a lot of people) knew I was Bi a long time before I had my first time. It all started off as a sleep over because we were going on a boat the next day early but we ended up not getting any sleep :) Till this day I still think of him..
2006-08-22 14:03:39 · answer #4 · answered by Super 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always joked around with this girl in school who was a year ahead of me and openly les. At that time I was ... confused to say the least ... But any who.. Two years after graduation this girl and I were still Friends and she just so happened to be single *we were never at the same time* So I told her what I wanted and she borrowed a car, drove the hour to my house and it just happened.
The second time, I was at her apartment and told her I wanted a massage. She said ok and I took my shirt off... Not long after we moved into the bedroom. Lol..
The thing about us though, we are friends first. I can call her with my problems and vise versa. I love this girl with all my heart, but again... Friends first.
2006-08-22 16:07:14 · answer #5 · answered by Steph 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fell in love with my best friend... We were always close but now even closer. Never considered being gay/bi before then
2006-08-22 14:17:32 · answer #6 · answered by noname006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew I was a lesbian at a very young age and when I met someone that I really liked and fell in love with we made love a year after being together.
2006-08-22 15:55:29 · answer #7 · answered by Scully 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew long before that I was lesbian. I think most everyone, gay or straight knows who they are attracted to before they ever have a physical relationship. some may be in denial until they are older, but most realize that we are born the way we are. my 1st was someone I had met online. it was long distance...so didn't last but a few short years.
2006-08-22 13:09:41 · answer #8 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I knew I was bi years before I was with someone.
2006-08-22 13:15:44 · answer #9 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm.... I was with my 1st gf..... she was known to be a bit of a player and I thought that sex was a way of keeping her in my bed and out of everybody else's! *lol* Sad but true.
I knew years beforehand but only came out as bi so that others would percieve me as being half "normal"......... whatever that means!
2006-08-22 13:09:12 · answer #10 · answered by Mooks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋