I fall out with some friends at school and other places because i dont like them... any ideas what i could do about this? thank you.
2006-08-22 05:49:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It happens to lots of people. It is really hard to find real friends. But, you have to have on consideration that, you can not expect them to be exactly the way you are, they will have different opinions; different taste; they won't be just like you. You have to learn to respect and understand others' points of view. You would do better at keeping friends knowing this.
2006-08-26 02:33:34 · answer #1 · answered by Insomnia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A friendship is something that develops naturally and over time. You're clearly not meant to be friends with these people, don't worry too much, you're still young, I'm sure you will form some great friendships with people who will be lucky to have you as a friend as you are clearly a sincere and honest person .Think about the qualities you like in people and if you meet someone that has those qualities then try to get to know them better, don't waste your time with people you don't like, life's too short for that.
2006-08-24 11:42:34 · answer #2 · answered by Paris69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try hanging out in different places. The people you met at school are obviously not your type of people. Don't worry about it.
I had very few friends at school either, but I had mates from the neighbourhood instead.
Never really made good friends with more than about 5 people before I left my shitty town and moved to the big city.
Hang in there honey, you'll soon come across a bunch of cool people
2006-08-22 12:57:48 · answer #3 · answered by savs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find friends that you have more in common with. You will not like every single thing about every single person so tolerance is a must as well. Try getting into clubs or sports that interest you. At least you know that you and the other people there have one similar interest. Then go from there.
2006-08-22 13:01:35 · answer #4 · answered by geni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gareth M, are you sure you got the "good" and "great" the right way around?
Lucy W, as many have said, tolerance comes with age and maturity. You'll learn to live with others' failings (as well as your own) as time goes by.
As people have said, it may be what you are doing that causes you to fall out with 'friends'. If they are true friends, there are obstacles that can be overcome. It's just a matter of getting used to each others' foibles.
Best of luck.
2006-08-23 23:23:39 · answer #5 · answered by micksmixxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like most of them they were not your friends to lose. Write down what you are really interesed in, what kind of people you like, what annoys you, then go and join a club or group that does the things you think are cool. There is something for everyone out there. Also, ask yourself if you are being short tempered and intolerant with people who are merely trying too hard because they want YOU to like THEM.
2006-08-22 12:58:21 · answer #6 · answered by stevensontj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend is someone you like to hang with because they have similar interests. You like being with a friend because you can joke around and do cool stuff, and a friend won't think you're stupid.
If you're hanging out with people you don't like they are not friends. It seems to me that you're probably being unnecessarily critical of what these people like to do. Unless, of course, what they are doing is illegal or immoral. You should never hang with people that do bad things because one guy is leading them on. This is pack mentality, and human beings should be above this.
Sooner or later you are going to meet someone you like to be with because they're easy to talk to. They are going to have some of the same interests as you, that you'll be able to talk to them for hours about. A real friend is someone that you have a real connection with. You would not want to do something to hurt a friend, because it would be like hurting yourself. That friend will come along. And they are worth waiting for.
2006-08-22 13:04:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look for a friend who has similar interest to u how can u be friends with some one you don't like anyway
its time to start growing up and learn from your mistakes
2006-08-22 13:28:48 · answer #8 · answered by christine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some friends that you like or poeple who have the same interrest as you, why would you have friends that you dont like, that doesnt make any sense...
2006-08-22 12:56:45 · answer #9 · answered by Benks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just havent met any good ones yet , your soulmate may bump into you tomorrow just remember good things take time but great things happen all at once
2006-08-22 15:05:10 · answer #10 · answered by Gareth M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋