I got pregnant 6 weeks ago. He was someone i just hooked up with & he started with this notion that were gonna be together. (let me explain from the start) I think he got me pregnant on purpose so we can "be together" (yea right). It was just sex & now he wants a relationship, I told him lets take it one day @ a time for the relationship. I was really nervous @ first & now im happy with the pregnancy , He's told me he'll take me to court after I told him we can be Co- Parents & thats all split everything 50/50. "If we can't be together I should just abort the child. Now I think hes kinda crazy he has no kids & his sister might not be able to have kids & I told him i schedule the appointment to term. But I've had a change of heart & will not go to court over my child which I will raise by myself. I don't want him to come by for court visitation & never see my child again. What do you think?
2006-08-22 05:49:36 · 9 answers · asked by island_gurl_forever 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
don't do it.........move away and take care of yourself......if he is crazy then he will stop at nothing to make you miserable.
2006-08-22 07:02:23 · answer #1 · answered by kaseymay_2000 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My father left when i was 3 weeks old of his own free will. He then died when i was 18 and i never met him. Speaking from your childs point of view i was very upset when this happened. I would try to work things out rather than push him away. I would tell him that if he cares about the baby he needs to think about the babys intrests and that taking you to court would just drive a wedge between you two. (you and the father that is)
I would also think about it if the roles were reversed. Because you are a woman you have the right to keep your child. but what would you do if someone told you, "You can never see this child again"
2006-08-22 06:04:58 · answer #2 · answered by Tabitha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, you say that now but when that child comes and takes over your entire, yes entire life for the next 18 years, you will be singing a different tune.other people will start pressuring you into getting child support(which the child deserves). I really think you are being naive about the whole situation. if you have his child he has a right to be a part of that childs life. a child should have TWO loving parents raising it.
2006-08-22 06:24:04 · answer #3 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw him!!! no matter if he sabotaged it or not,it don't have befell if GOD did not like it to.no you could make existence unles HE says so.one element is for particular...you're its mom and it loves you even now.i'm soooooo happy that you placed your thoughts aside and took into interest that the existence is already there and it really is in accordance to you for its survival. you're in for the most excellent miracle of your existence.there is surely not something even mildly reminiscent of turning right into a mom.concentration on how blessed you're to were chosen to usher this newborn into the international and characteristic it brighten your daily with its presence.If that guy would not understand the blessing he has been given,then this is purely too undesirable for him.he's about to omit out on the in ordinary words element properly worth living for.PLEASE keep me printed on you and the baby's progression,i'm so excited,because i'm a mom now too(after i concept I in no way will be) and that i desire each lady to journey that miracle.you seriously is not a similar and could in no way favor to.
2016-12-01 00:09:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... he is the father and does have some rights... and when you do make your decision remember it is not just for you it is for your child... and do you mean to tell me you do not think you will need any financial support from him? Emotional support?
2006-08-22 05:57:17 · answer #5 · answered by Tricia P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lawyer would better answer all ur questions. how could he get u pregnant on purpose? u knew that what u're doing could lead to preg, right? unless he lied about wearing a condom, but still...
2006-08-22 06:04:53 · answer #6 · answered by lady sixx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then i guess your kid is going to go through life not knowing his her dad.i think thats just stupid if your just trying to get back at him but it's your life.do what you want but think about how it will affect the baby.
2006-08-22 05:59:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could he have gotten you pregnant on purpose? You have no control of what enters your body? wtf?
2006-08-22 06:06:58 · answer #8 · answered by ♣DreamDancer♣ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him
2006-08-22 06:00:34 · answer #9 · answered by Kristy h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋