me and this other girl are best friends and she kinda ditched me b4 but i went back 2 hanging out w. her and shes really good hearted and i dont think she means it but i think its gonna happen again so do u think i should stay friends?
2006-08-22 05:36:48 · 23 answers · asked by A0I5 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hey! i have one of those exact same friends. We have been friends for a long time but she always ditches me. But here is what i do. I try not to take it personal because i no she is a good person underneath it all. So what i do is i dont raise my hopes to high, if she comes through she comes through. i always have a back up plan. and nothing wrong with spending sometime by your self some times when she does not show up. Besides i am sure you have other friends
2006-08-22 05:46:30 · answer #1 · answered by candylishus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie I've been in that before and all it's gonna do is make a fool out of you. You already know what she's worth and even though she is a good hearted person, she just might not be the friend for YOU! Let her move on because you might be missing out on your real true friend hanging put with that phony. It's okay to speak or call every now and again but don't even set yourself up for disappointment. Your forgetting to consider your OWN feelings in this one. Good luck with that because I know it's easier said than done.
LOL & Be Good...=)
2006-08-22 05:50:48 · answer #2 · answered by feva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to her and ask why she ditched you. Also ask her if she really wants to be your true friend and that it wont offend u if she doesnt. And I do mean TRUE friend. If she does and shes totally honest..then maybe the two of you have a friendship. But if it happens again...she aint your real friend. And i wouldnt necessarily look for friends..let them find you and prove themselves to you. Know what I mean?
2006-08-22 05:47:07 · answer #3 · answered by redhead 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if she is there when you REALLY need her. I have a great friend who hasn't been there on a few occassions, but is there for the really big things.
If she isn't there for either...she's a bad friend.
2006-08-22 05:42:39 · answer #4 · answered by Alyssa M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a friend is not a friend when he/she ditches you..so no...if you have doubts about it, better not get back to your friend ever....because it will happen again...
2006-08-22 05:46:15 · answer #5 · answered by bl00dy_angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once there is a crack in a relationship it always stays there, be friends with her but dont trust her a lot or depend on her.
2006-08-22 05:46:11 · answer #6 · answered by naturelover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-22 05:42:53 · answer #7 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell her how you feel about her ditching you.
2006-08-22 05:43:50 · answer #8 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, that happened to me. I was to tired of being back stabbed.
2006-08-22 05:43:41 · answer #9 · answered by tootsie lou 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No... find friends who wont ditch you for any stupid reason.
2006-08-22 05:42:10 · answer #10 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋