Why does everyone judge based on 1 mistake?

Question

To the people that have cheated.Why is that everyone assumes it will happen again. I did once but I don't have any excuses to give you I made a mistake I am far from perfect but I would think twice about doing it again. So to the people that think they are better then me can kiss me ***. Cheating with a man or woman when you are a woman is still cheating just because your husband says it ok how is that right?? Why judge

Answer 1

sad to say that... judging one's character based a a person's single mistake is juz human behaviour.
You jus gotta be patient and prove them wrong eventually... Jus be patient...

Answer 2

I don't judge others; especially people I don't know. However, I don't exactly hold anyone who does that in the highest regard. If the spouse says it's ok, I don't hold either of them in the highest regard.

It is a fact, although sad, that it is very easy to find someone who has never had an affair but it nearly impossible to find someone who has only had one.

Answer 3

Just be and do the best you can and remember the people who are doing all the judging are usually the worst offenders! Look at those people who went after Clinton, every last one of them was guilty as hell of the same thing they were prosecuting him for!

Answer 4

I know what you mean, its like "Who died and made you King?" We are human and make mistakes, that is why no one should judge anyone else, unless of course they are PERFECT! LOL lots of luck to ya. don't worry about what people think.

Answer 5

Its not cheating if he knows about it and tells you its okay to do.
Especially if you let him watch you with the other woman.

Answer 6

Let's cheat babe - together - I won't judge you

Answer 7

its the trust that you lose. once you lose trust it is hard to gain it back, if you ever do.