ok i have this guy friend he hits on me all the time and my friends say it is a love signel and we have dated befor and it was ok butt i dont know and i dont want to kiss him but if i dont it might roun are friendship he has tried to kiss me befor when we were going out but i pulled away from him but he is really cut so what sould i do????? HELP ME PLEASE?????????????????????????????????????????????????????
2006-08-22 05:24:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
and i cant talk to any adults because i dont live with any
2006-08-22 05:36:50 · update #1
but i do like him
2006-08-22 05:43:08 · update #2
avoid being around him if you can. the guy is not going to leave you alone and it sounds like you are not ready for that kind of thing yet. back away from him and let him practice on someone else instead of you.
2006-08-22 05:33:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to kiss him, or don't feel comfortable with his advances that is totally ok. You will just have to tell him that you love him loads, but not in the way he would like. Inform him gently that your friendship with him means a lot, and you don't want to get involved in a relationship. If you do not like him in that way, then the two of you would almost certainly break up, in which case you would lose a boyfriend and a friend. If he is a true mate, he will understand and settle for being a great friend to you.
2006-08-22 12:40:59 · answer #2 · answered by Jethro 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can learn a lot about a person by reading their previous questions... Like with you for example...
A month ago you were 15, and now you are 17... You sure age quickly!!!
A week ago you were in love with your best friend!!!
In another question a week ago, your boyfriend was in the army, and they couldn’t find him!!!
What an interesting life you live.
I'd like to help you, but at the rate you are aging, it will probably be too late!!!
2006-08-22 13:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can like him as a friend. Usually when you step across that line from friend to lover it changes the friendship forever. You already know what you want to do, follow your gut instincts and you won't be wrong. Even if you have to make a mistake, you will learn from it and know how do deal with it next time.
2006-08-22 14:12:37 · answer #4 · answered by pecksun8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, go on Shehasit, give the poor sod a kiss but make sure that's all he gets. The poor lad is heads over heels in love with you. Tell your mom what you intend to do and she will probably say the same as I am saying. Let him out of his misery, go on give him a kiss.................
2006-08-22 12:34:25 · answer #5 · answered by thomasrobinsonantonio 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
before you go out with him lay down some ground rules.
1) take the relationship slowly
2) no kissing
3) go by your pase
if he does not want to go out with you because of these rules then we does not respect you. if he does go out with you, but breaks the rules then hes not fully respecting you. if he goes out with you and he respects you fully, then you have a good man.
Good Luck :-)
2006-08-22 12:58:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
correct me if I'm wrong, but would the guy be trying to kiss you if he didn't have feeling for you? give the guy a kiss and see where it leads
2006-08-22 12:34:15 · answer #7 · answered by Ms Berry Picker 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hehehe. i had that problem to. i just told him if he tried to do anything to me i would hurt him. lol. and i told him i liked him just not in the way he wants me too. oh and i told him that i just wanna be friends. it seemed to have work considering we are still really good friends.
2006-08-22 14:09:54 · answer #8 · answered by 2hot4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't live with adults, where in the heck do you live?
2006-08-22 12:41:09 · answer #9 · answered by kitten lover3 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's called something like peer pressure.Don't do anything you don't want to do.DUH.
2006-08-22 12:40:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋