is it for a 42 year old guy married for 24 years to keep putting sexy pictures of 18-25 year old women all over the family computer? Even though he knows it offends his wife.
2006-08-22 05:01:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He already bought a motorcycle and gets photos of Hooters Girls etc to pose on it
2006-08-22 05:20:40 · update #1
it's not immature, it's disrespectful! and the age thing doesn't matter. at 43(and single!) i have pics of models in calendars hanging by my desk. if i am with a woman (dating, married or otherwise) they come down. if i am by myself, it's my perogative to hang them up for my viewing pleasure!
2006-08-22 05:08:50 · answer #1 · answered by ceebee1111 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not just immature, but a little blind to the example he may be setting for his own kids. It's one thing to be entertained by such images in your own space, where there is no chance others will be privvy to them, but it is another to impose such graphic displays upon one's wife and children. One thing to be noted, is that he is not making any attempt to hide these images. Whether he is doing it as a passive message, cry for help, or frustration remains to be seen. Perhaps a conversation is in order; one that would address some serious issues in this marriage as well as the family (if there is one). He may also be going through a kind of mid-life crisis, but I suspect this behavior may not be limited to the recent. Try and have a conversation that does not lead to defensive standing (not an easy thing, I know). You may find out some things you did not know before (take the good with the bad), and it may just happen that he does too. Good Luck~
2006-08-22 12:21:45 · answer #2 · answered by Finnegan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well thats not ok. But man always have urge for sex. And he tries to satissfy it one or other way. Although this is very wrong bcoz family computer is used by everyone. He must realise this fact. Anyways try to have some fun and bring some flavour even at this stage. You have be the source to satissfy the urge. Rest he should also understand and go as per changing time.
2006-08-22 12:24:31 · answer #3 · answered by ariesaregudfriends 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is normal. Men like to look at sexy and beautiful women. His wife should not be offended by it because it pleasures him. She is busy with the family and can't tend to his sexual needs at every moment. I think she needs to cool off and realize that all guys are like that. Although, I don't think it's necessary to be on the FAMILY computer.
2006-08-22 12:09:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This 42 year old man is mentally retarded. What else would explain him marrying someone so much younger. He needs someone as stupid as he is in order to appear just a bit smarter, Alas...this had not worked either...he needs a 17 year old wife.
2006-08-22 12:15:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is having a mid-life crisis and after 24 years he doesn't care about what you think or if yoru are offended or not.
A motorcycle or a red corvette may be next.
Good luck
2006-08-22 12:09:37 · answer #6 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very immature.....especially since he knows it offends you...and since he won't stop fight fire with fire....go to Wal-Mart pick up a 24 exp. disposable camera....go to a local mall or somewhere like that and snap photos of sexy guys and some of yourself with them.....post them on the wall above your bed...if he objects tell him to leave you alone...he has his computer!!!!
2006-08-22 12:09:31 · answer #7 · answered by Honey Dip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats real damn immature, he's making himself look like he is 18 again. I wouldn't care if my hubby looked at it but puttin the pics on the computer is rude.
2006-08-22 12:08:25 · answer #8 · answered by lillady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not ok for him to be doing that but obviously he is sending out a message. He craves being with younger women. It turns him on alot.
2006-08-22 12:08:37 · answer #9 · answered by Jersey Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brainless!
2006-08-22 12:42:48 · answer #10 · answered by babe_of_spanish_gladiator69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋