please tell me bc a boy asked me out and now he wants to have sex
2006-08-22 05:01:02 · 14 answers · asked by rose 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Sex is an intimate communication between a man and a woman. It's a wonderful experience.
You'll feel tingly all over. If you must engage in sex, you must always, always practice safe sex. That is the use of condoms. If the boy really cares for you, he shouldn't pressure you to have sex. Sex should be reserved for marriage. Nowadays, couples go on trial basis
they live together. They want to find out if they are compatible. Sex in that case is presumptious. The favorite line for boys is : if you love me you should have sex with me. You can banter and say, now if you love me;you shouldn't ask me for sex. He has to honor and respect your wishes. It's normal for the boys to ask sex at this stage as their testosterone are quite active.
2006-08-22 05:23:15 · answer #1 · answered by rosieC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
JUST DON'T DO IT!
It is clearly evident that you are ABSOLUTELY NOT ready to have sex!!!!!!
How old are you? You're referring to this other person as a "boy" so that makes me think you're under the age of 15, which is WAY TOO YOUNG to be thinking about sex.
Until you are old enough (say 18 or older) to understand ALL that goes on and all the responsibilities that go along with an ADULT activity, you are NOT ready to have sex.
Do you REALLY want to be a 13 or 14 year old mommy???
If the BOY likes you, he's going to respect your wishes when you SAY NO. Anyone who tries to blackmail you into sex is self-centered, immature, and really wouldn't do for you what you'd want sex to be anyway.
2006-08-22 05:16:25 · answer #2 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just bc a boy asked you out, doesn't mean you need to have sex with him. Don't have sex until you are in a committed relationship.
2006-08-22 05:15:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
only do it when your ready... you can have sex but theres a lot of emotional bagge that comes along with it.. you could wait until you can get to know him better and if you do decide to have sex remeber to use a condom and other contraceptives..also there can always , i mean always be a chance that you can get pregnant because a condom is not 100% safe.. remeber that that guy could have a sexual transmitted disease.. that includes having aids.. just because they look healthy in the outside , that doesn't mean they are healthy in the inside... besides when you first do it you might not even like it because it can be very uncomfortable.. or so i've heard.. take care and good luck..and remeber that you can always say no because can be another guy you can have sex with at the right time...do a little more research before you do it :)
2006-08-22 05:27:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey trust me...when the right time and the right guy comes along, you'll KNOW you're ready. So if you're asking this question, then you already know the answer, you already know that you aren't ready. Do NOT let some guy push you into doing it. It won't make you "cool" or anything else he might say to get you to do it. But it can give you diseases and make you pregnant. Do it only when YOU'RE ready and not a minute before.
2006-08-22 05:17:36 · answer #5 · answered by I'm just me 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, you must be too young to have sex right now. Also, don't have sex just because someone asks you. You should wait until you are mature enough to handle it...actually, you really should wait until after you find the right person and get married!
2006-08-22 05:16:11 · answer #6 · answered by Mary B 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How old are you ?and do you use pertection ?and do you relize the risk you may be taking ,there are so many dieases out there ,I suggest you wait until you are in love and muture enough to know its forever and then make your discussion .you need to be really careful these days I Think you need to wait and to be honest a wanderful way to know if they really love you or not ,if they are willing to wait ,that says alot .be safe and think it thru ,good luck
2006-08-22 05:13:17 · answer #7 · answered by Holly 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My dear, if you have any hesitations at all, pls say no to him.
He may respect you more for that.
Anyway, to answer your question, first times are usually not that exciting as you are unsure and it hurts especially if the guy's not experienced himself. Do take pains to protect yourself from stds and pregnancy...
and if he really cares for you, he wouldn't force the issue.
2006-08-22 05:31:08 · answer #8 · answered by Amy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you have to ask , then the best thing for you to do is say no to him, and go have a talk with mom and dad.
2006-08-25 22:23:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a lot of work. Not really worth it if you ask me.
2006-08-22 05:07:33 · answer #10 · answered by Gregg H 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋