I'm 6 months pregnant and my boyfriend the father of my baby (due in november) stopped calling me and stopped answering my calls. I'm very hurt and clueless on what to do? I'm very scared too.
2006-08-22 04:57:56 · 13 answers · asked by Noah's Mom 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is what you do
I know that it may be hard because you may love him but you have to be strong for you and your baby regardless if the father is there or not. Keep hope alive maybe he is trying to better himself. You never know what will happen just know that you have a baby that will be with and the two of you can enjoy life and find another daddy that will love you'll and be there sooner or later he will come around and see what he has missed out on.
2006-08-22 05:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get your families support now and carry on preparing for the changes you are going to have in your life when that baby comes. I am assuming you are going to keep the baby, but if you are not, then there are many, many wonderful couples out there waiting to adopt, so maybe that is an option too. You don't say how old you are and if you have an education or job, so it is hard to answer this completely.
2006-08-22 05:07:21 · answer #2 · answered by joandi_99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,Just remember soon u will have someone that will need u totally and love u unconditionally.He may have got scared or he may have decide not ready to be a father.Either way don't seat crying and waiting or calling him.If he is scared he will come back if he is a chicken.Then u and the little one are better off without him.Find u some moral support friends or family.real moral support and relax.Its OK to be scared at any age and even if u are on your own there are people out there to care and help.good luck and let me know how it goes.
2006-08-22 05:19:17 · answer #3 · answered by motherof319662000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No this isn't what good men do. You just picked a bad apple. My husband would never walk out on me and our children. And there is no need to go knocking on the loser's door and ask for an explanation. I think leaving you high and dry is enough.
You need to protect yourself and that child if he ever walks back into your life and wants to see the child. File for full custody as she stated and start the papers for child support. This shouldn't cost anything for Child Support Enforcement in your area.
You don't have to join the millions of women who had men walk out on them. You know better so you do better. You pick men that are good men no the losers. Don't get yourself into this mess again. And don't have babies with LOSERS!
2006-08-22 05:11:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take care of yourself and that baby at once. First of all file for full custody of your child and file for child support at once! I hope you have his Social Security number. Contact the Division of Child Support Enforcement in your state.
Do not be scared it is better the loser left before he had a negative impact on your babies life. Reach out to your family for help!
You are going to be ok. Remember something. This guy left and there is no ticket back into your life. Under no circumstance do you accept some crazy sad story of his and take him back in.
What state are you in?
2006-08-22 05:07:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you do is you pick yourself up and realize you CAN do it all by yourself. You don't want someone who isn't sure about being with you or your baby. You take these months to nurture yourself and your child. You file a case with your state child support office as well to protect the interests of your child no matter what happens with the father. Good luck!
2006-08-22 05:09:40 · answer #6 · answered by alysha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the rest of us million single parents in the world who's baby daddy walked out on us. I know you hurt right now but you need to stay strong for your baby. Alot of us raise children on our own these days. You can do it. You really have no choice but to do it. Use your family to help you out. Make a plan. You still have 3 months to plan your next move before your baby comes
2006-08-22 05:06:37 · answer #7 · answered by FRECKLES 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Surround yourself with family and friends. Clue them in on what's going on. Join a support group with women in the same situation. You are not alone and unfortunately, this happens everyday. You have a family of your own to take care of now. If you need, seek government assistance and later, legal help for child support. Don't let him abandon his responsibilities. As a boyfriend, you should dump him for good.
2006-08-22 05:09:14 · answer #8 · answered by jeneration Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried to contact his friends or family to find out where he went off to ? He's probably nervous about becoming a Dad, just call him once a wk. & let him know
that you still care & want to know why he left, maybe he just needs some time to think. If he works then ask them
to leave him a message to call you, but DO NOT call
there more than ONCE so he won't say you harassed
him. Good Luck
2006-08-22 05:09:39 · answer #9 · answered by start 6-22-06 summer time Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop by his house and demand an explanation. Remind him that it is his child and he owes it to you to be there. Tell him that the child will need him. Even ask him if he would marry you, that would make him commited.
2006-08-22 05:07:10 · answer #10 · answered by Grommet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋