My husband still demand for a baby boy from me, and am between 46-47 years old.
2006-08-22 04:48:31 · 36 answers · asked by jolade adebiyi 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You can if you're still having periods, etc. But only do it if YOU want to do it... I take it you've got lots of baby girls together!? There will be a higher risk of downs syndrome and a higher risk to you in labour and at the end of the day, when your darling baby boy is crying at 3 in the morning, will it be you or your husband that gets up? PLUS, a boy isn't guaranteed! Is your husband Indian? I'm not being racist, but my friends that are Indian became desperate for a son to leave everything too, I can't understand any other reason for desperately wanting a boy unless you both do!
2006-08-24 12:01:37 · answer #1 · answered by zoe s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can but it's high risk to you and the baby. At your age, you are more likely to die, miscarry, give birth to a stillborn, or have a baby with some sort of deformity or disability. Does your husband realize that you can't make yourself have a boy? For him to demand a boy from you is very chauvinistic. The fact that he is demanding a son from you should make you not even want to have another child with him. There are no guarantees. What would happen if you had a girl? You really should consult a doctor before making that decision so you are both aware of the risks.
2006-08-22 05:05:43 · answer #2 · answered by eehco 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women do have babies in their forties but it can be much harder to get pregnant. Also there is an increased risk of pregnancy complications and birth defects as you get older.
However, medical care is way more advanced today than it was years ago and doctors can cope with most eventualities. Your main challenge may well be getting pregnant, in which case you woul dneed to have enough money to pay for IVF treatment.
BTW my mum had my brother when she was 42. Natural conception, no problems with the pregnancy, natural birth and no problems with my brother who is now a hulking 6ft tall 28 year old!!! No ill effects whatsoever so it can be done, although younger people don't always realise it as to them "30" is "ancient" and people over that age shouldn't even be having sex let alone babies!
I'm having my first baby in December, and I'll be a week or so before my 35th birthday. I'd tried for years and had given up hope of ever getting pregnant when this miracle happened.
2006-08-22 04:58:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't you will be a very high risk pregnancy, but if you are very physically fit and health you could possibly do it. Talk to your doctor before trying to conceive. You need to think about whether YOU want a baby, not only if your husband does. Also you need to realize that you could have a girl. Would your husband resent her? That would not be a good life for a child. Lastly, If you are 46 years old, when your child is 16 and at their worst behaviour, you will be 62 years old! My parents are 41 and they can barely handle me... Good Luck, I'm sure you'll do whatever is best for you
2006-08-22 04:59:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sure you can but it's your body and your choice. If you haven't hit menopause yet then yes its still possible. But there are a lot of health risks, you should talk to your doctor if your serious. Are you ready to handle a baby again? I think your husband needs some talking to. He shouldnt demand a baby and who's to say you'll actually have a boy? You two really need to discuss the pros and cons of this situation. I wish you the best of luck and hope you make a good decision for yourself.
2006-08-22 04:55:46 · answer #5 · answered by a.kranz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can, but your chances of having a baby with a syndrome or other problems goes up dramatically. The chances of having a child with Downs Syndrome alone goes up to 1 in 20. They would monitor you very closely. Also, you would 60 when the child enters high school. Just some things to think about.
2006-08-22 04:57:32 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can but are you prepared for the hard work that comes along with a small person.
Sleepless Nights,Energy not as high as if you are younger, being older parents.
My best friend had her first child in her twenties and her second in here thirties and admits being older was harder.
The decision is yours at the end of the day so what you decide will be the right thing for you.
2006-08-22 05:02:36 · answer #7 · answered by rachelsweet2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you could, though it is believed that the baby may be born with complications, but hey, what about the woman aged 60 who recently gave birth to a bouncing, healthy baby? So go for it if you really want to, but i guess there's always a risk in everything.
2006-08-22 04:55:29 · answer #8 · answered by Georgina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you're not menopausal you can,but there are greater risks for down syndrome and birth defects.Why is your husband DEMANDING a son?Tell him to get a dog.I wouldn't want to have a child that late in life,don't you want some time to enjoy yourself again?I had my last one 11 months ago,i'm only 32 and i feel like i'm too old for this.I can't imagine one at 47.
2006-08-22 05:02:37 · answer #9 · answered by Sallie J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend who is actually 30 years old and is suffering badly from complications of the uterus. She doesn t go out of the house, stays in bed etc...what I m trying to say is that problems during pregnancy have no age. God gives you all. If the baby is to be healthy or the mother to have a fine pregnancy it s about luck. And god. So if you want it you must try. Forget about the age
2015-10-15 04:54:53 · answer #10 · answered by vitsi2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋