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I have come to the conclusion that it is her life's work to pick on me and generally make me feel like cr*p. She is always getting at me for one thing or another and I have had enough!!!!

Hopefully the interview I went for yesterday will be a success, I will enjoy giving her my letter of resignation.

2006-08-22 04:00:28 · 15 answers · asked by jmhale2005 2 in Business & Finance Careers & Employment

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I completely know where you are coming from. There is one here that is like that. She moves from person to person, I just say to myself that she must be really unhappy with herself to have to torture others for no reason!

2006-08-22 04:10:26 · answer #1 · answered by pattiof 4 · 2 0

Be cautious with the letter of resignation. While you may well be justified in stating your dissatisfaction with this boss some day down the road the letter may well reappear and be reviewed by some future employer who is alarmed by your frankness. I have expressed my true feelings in letters of resignation only to have them cause me much more grief than the recipient.

2006-08-22 04:14:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 1 0

Good luck with the new job. Office bullying is a breach of your Human rights. An offence under the Human Rights Act. You could sue. Not as much fun as sticking your resignation letter up her **** - and much more expensive. Leave a note in your desk drawer for your replacement. I don't want to get you in deep crap - but without mentioning your bosses name or the company - you could consider writing a piece on office bullying and putting it on blogger or soulcast or somewhere.

2006-08-22 04:17:53 · answer #3 · answered by Mike10613 6 · 1 1

I had a boss once like that and I challenged her attitude - her reply was that she was doing it for my own good and that I would thank her for it later in life. Well I eventually became a Head of Department for an NGO and remembered that woman and tried to have the opposite of her management style - it must have worked because my department was the most popular to work in and when someone left to go overseas half the company applied for her position. Best of luck in your new job application, I hope it goes well for you.

2006-08-22 04:11:56 · answer #4 · answered by blondie 6 · 2 0

If this person has a boss, and you like your job, before I quit...I would go to her boss. If she doesn't have a legitimate reason to be treating you like this, it is illegal to treat you in such a manner. If there are problems with her, and with yourself, it needs to be worked out.

If you do have personal problems, changing your job won't help. Your problems will go right along with you. I hope that isn't the cause. But we all have problems, we are only human. There is nothing wrong with getting help for our problems.
I wish you luck in you endeavors.

2006-08-22 04:19:31 · answer #5 · answered by sylvie 3 · 1 0

Good luck and read "The Devil Wears Prada" or watch the movie. Your boss may have not been like Miranda Priestly.

2006-08-22 04:09:22 · answer #6 · answered by Sapphire 3 · 0 0

There are always two sides to a story. I wish you luck with the interview, however.

2006-08-24 17:01:20 · answer #7 · answered by Owlwings 7 · 0 0

Check if your attitude to work is right. Otherwise you may face the same problems in your new job

2006-08-22 22:21:36 · answer #8 · answered by adwoa 2 · 1 0

I hate bosses like that, mines got small bloke syndrome

2006-08-22 04:11:11 · answer #9 · answered by Mickenoss 4 · 0 0

Do what I did? Fire your boss and work from home! I started at www.bedavis1.mywayout.net and I love it! No more boss telling me what to do or how to do it or telling me when I can or can't take a vacation and such!
Good luck!

2006-08-22 07:28:27 · answer #10 · answered by BevD 4 · 0 2

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