My sister in law uses or takes everyone on this planet for granted.She has used me for full 6 yrs.I tot she is my husband's elder sister so i never cared i always let go things for her n always went with her.She always took me out wherever say dance,shopping,drive,dinners everywhere.But i was not in town for few months n she found another friend.That friend is also my friend.Even that friend knows how sis in law is.But the friend is not saying NO to her for anything.Sis in law calls her,shes ready.Now sis in law takes her everywhere n not me.The point is when her friend is not available for anything she calls me otherwise she never calls.She calls only when she has work or needs to go out.I have realised it and have stoped going out wth her.I have done my duty by saying NO.but i feel v bad n sad frm within that she used me n i m not a timid n weak person.The thing that she has used me is always going on in my mind & irritate me day & nite.I m not able to forget it.What do i do?
2006-08-22 03:57:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You have to learn to say NO!
2006-08-22 04:28:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
.u have to learn to get over her and treat her like a good friend..means if she ask u to do something,if u can help her..i think she did not use u, but she did not have any god friend so she was depended on u
2006-08-22 04:17:49 · answer #2 · answered by theunknownseal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be weak fight her back , I am also in Dubai if you need somebody to talk to then email me on hotchocredrose@yahoo.com.
2006-08-23 00:54:01 · answer #3 · answered by hotchocredrose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just forget her n move on.....u hav a family just b happy....does ur husband know about this?
2006-08-22 16:52:26 · answer #4 · answered by pam c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋