Pls Help!! - i've been with my partner for 2 years and recently i have been wondering what it would be like with someone else??
What can i do??
2006-08-22 03:52:08 · 11 answers · asked by Carol 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
just dream on we all think these things lol
2006-08-22 03:58:40 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Hannah♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good old curiosity huh !! Hey, we've ALL been there, done that. I've been with my partner for 10 years..and if I had a penny for every time I had a thought like that..wow..I would be an extremely wealthy woman, lol ! I have never actually done anything about those thoughts though because I do love him and I would not want to ruin our relationship !
I'm sure that my partner has probably had those exact same thoughts at one time or another, wondering what it would be like to be with another woman ( your partner may well have those thoughts too...then again maybe not ...)
So, my advice to you would be this: Be honest with yourself, do you really love him, find him exciting, do you get what you need from him? If the answer is yes, then don't worry about these thoughts ( like all the others said, they are normal ) but if the answer is no, then you may need to do something about it.
It would be awful if you cheated on him though, especially if he has no idea about how you feel .
Have a good think about what you want, and I'm sure you will work it out in the end and do the right thing for both of you . Good luck .
2006-08-22 11:20:04 · answer #2 · answered by Paris69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fist of all, it's normal to be attracted to other people besides your partner. All that means is that you have a healthy sex drive. After time, the relationship can get a little routine in the bedroom.
Talk to your partner about new positions, or try other less traditional rooms on impulse. Talk about new ways to spice up your sex life together. Maybe some lingerie, toys, movies, etc... If you suppress your instincts, you may get to the point that thinking about someone else isn't enough, you actually cheat on your partner.
No matter how he/she responds, it's better to get your feeling out in the open. That way you two can find a solution that is satisfactory to both of you without one being unfaithful or unsatisfied.
2006-08-22 11:15:17 · answer #3 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only natural, don't worry everyone goes through that. The problem gets worse if you start to think it would be better with someone else. Trust me, the grass is not greener! (unless your partner is a jerk of course!)
2006-08-22 11:01:34 · answer #4 · answered by voodoobluesman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it more than just wondering. You may be beginning to realize that you don't really love this person. Search your heart down deep you will find the answer.
2006-08-22 11:01:49 · answer #5 · answered by Retarded Dave 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea its normal. it usually comes from boredom. maybe try something new to spice up your relationship. most libraries and book stores offer some good books with great ideas.
2006-08-22 11:20:27 · answer #6 · answered by tropiccountrygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you....if young this is perfectly natural, it's natures way of forcing you to look for the best mate for your offspring...just do it
2006-08-26 06:36:06 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Prim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone wonders once in a while if the grass really is greener. That's perfectly normal but please think carefully before you act on these feelings.
2006-08-22 11:01:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'll help if you like. I can be really discrete. Anywhere near Dublin?
2006-08-22 11:01:23 · answer #9 · answered by Taxedman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a normal human feeling .... as long as you do nothing about it....and realize that is what it is....
2006-08-22 11:04:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋