2006-08-22 03:28:44 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Wrong! So Very Wrong!
2006-08-22 04:33:44 · answer #1 · answered by Mooks 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the nature of the relationship. If you are engaged with someone already, and you wish to have an outside affair, then it enters the domain of cheating on your partner, and that does not have positive scenarios when discovered.
If however you are talking about 2 people who are not already engaged in a relationship, and wish to have a "friends with benefits" accord, then I would have to admit that it sounds fun too. Show me a male who doesn't want sex without any strings attached !
But the word affair implies cheating behind your spouse's back, and that can be considered ethicaly wrong. Although there are no real "rules" that say you can't cheat, it is still not well viewed by most people in most societies.
Then there's the trust issue that comes into play and that can dig deeper inside than you would have originally thought.
My opinion is simple; accept the consequences of your actions no matter what you do.
2006-08-22 03:43:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd steer clear if you're in a committed, monogomous relationship. If you and your partner haven't talked about being able to see (and have sex with) other people, I wouldn't do it unless I talked to them first. They might be under a completely different impression about your relationship than you are. And it wouldn't be fair at all to hurt them like that, when a little simple communication could smooth things out. Now, if they say that they don't want an open relationship, I'd leave it alone....unless you're willing to lose the one you're with.
I don't have a problem when folks want to see more than one person at a time. As long as there is honesty. An affair is fun...until you get caught and someone's heart is broken. And it just might end up being yours. There are a lot of people at stake when you have an affair, and a lot of room for error.
Honesty is the best policy...and you'd be amazed at how far it can get you.
2006-08-22 09:38:58 · answer #3 · answered by Autumn BrighTree 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have had a couple, they were both huge amounts of fun.
One was relatively easy because I was working in a different country at the time, the other was with a work colleague. Both were at a time when I was unhappy in the relationship I was in. I don't regret either and neither does either of the people I was seeing. My ex wife never found out about either.
The affairs were only for one reason and that was sex.
I do not know if I would embark on an affair now as I am happily remarried but have had occasional one nighters and visits to prostitutes whilst away on business.
I realise that this is cheating on my wife but I view it differently from an affair as it is not on going.
Consider it very carefully before you embark on any affair whether it be short or long.
Is the risk and possibility of being caught worth it for a few minutes of pleasure?
2006-08-22 04:28:33 · answer #4 · answered by bobbi b 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stay clear of an affair..
2006-08-22 04:22:30 · answer #5 · answered by shawnhilty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay clear.
If you are with the right person, you wouldn't even think about it.
If the other person you think having a affair with is attached, you will be just of bit on the side and there is no feeling good about getting used by a cheat, nothing to expect either.
2006-08-22 03:36:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there any potential or value to the relationship you're in?
Do you have any respect or love for the person you're with?
Does causing emotional pain to other's trouble you?
If not, knock yourself out..
Keep in mind if the person you're having an affair with is in a relationship that this is the kind of person you're attracting as well.
Generally I find it's easier to be blunt with your SO and just tell them you want to f*ck around.
2006-08-22 04:03:24 · answer #7 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay clear . would u want Ur partner to have an affair ?
2006-08-22 03:48:52 · answer #8 · answered by angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its never really fun hurting other people but at the same time sometimes you have to think about ya self.So if you want to go for it,just try not to hurt any one.We only live once tho so i say have fun why you can x x
2006-08-22 03:45:50 · answer #9 · answered by jo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
affairs are fun, but dont get selfish, dont get emontions involved and never let the one u love get hurt, always wear protection, and dont get too cocky about it, never let it go on longer than a week, and only have ONE affair in ur whole relationships. but if u feel like ur going to feel gulity after word dont do it, because then ur life will be terrible and u will end up telling ur love and it will hurt them and thats rule number one DONT HURT THE ONE U LOVE!!!!
2006-08-22 03:37:17 · answer #10 · answered by jamaicanstar1971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An "Affair" almost always involves one person if not both not being faithful to someone else. Not a good thing.
2006-08-22 04:05:39 · answer #11 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋