You should heed to his answer and move on. I don't want to be part of a guess in order for a man to choose who he want to be with because that alone shows me he is confuse and with confusion is going back and forth with my feelings.
What if he decides to go with the girlfriend where does that leave your feelings, I would do the honor and let him be.
You are subjecting yourself to unnecessary stress and headaches as the result of what another person confuse mind is trying to do.
Whether he choose what's behind door number 1 you or what's behind door number 2 the girlfriend, I wouldn't allow my dignity to be placed in such situation.
If you like the cloud of uncertainty in order to have this guy or if you want someone who only wants to be with you only, then I suggest you think long and hard at your decision to stay or leave but don't be confuse the choice is clear.
Do what make you happy.
2006-08-22 03:40:14
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answer #1
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answered by words from the heart 3
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Some guys just want a girl on the arm for a show,they really don't care about them.If I was you I would dump him because you are a person not a rag doll for him to only have you as a show.He may also trying to make his ex-gf jealous.some guys will get gfs to make there ex's want them back and it sounds like he just leading you on.
2006-08-22 10:44:54
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answered by Nails 4 breakfast,tacks 4 snacks 4
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Girl never ever sell your self short.If his wondering if he should stay with u or with her that means he doesn't love u.He should be the one asking u if u wont a serious relationship hes the one with doubts its obvious is playing u
2006-08-22 10:44:47
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answered by Anonymous
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There shouldn't b an option U deserve someone who doesn't hesitate to answer r give an answer like that!!!!!!! Life is 2 short to waste on him. let him go and find someone new if he is meant 4 u he will b back just make sure it is on your terms. Good Luck
2006-08-22 10:41:27
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answered by Happi @ss 5
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WHAT!! He does not have the fulfillment? Well tell him have a nice day and leave him alone. The reason he says that is because he wants to have the both of you in his life. It is up to you as to what u want to accept. The decision is yours.
2006-08-22 10:40:54
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answered by precioustt 1
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What is that supposed to mean? Boy, you talk about a sideways answer, that is it. He ISN'T serious, he is using you. I hope you two aren't intimate because if so he's used you for another notch on his belt.
2006-08-22 10:41:24
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answered by snddupree 5
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Jesus is is so obvious . . . TRY TO FULFILL HIM !!!
2006-08-22 10:40:09
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answered by Anonymous
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