i have a boyfriend of three years who is 32 lives with mommy and daddy no problem ok
now there is a problem here: when i call parents lie and say he is not home than when he calls i ask what did u do he say nothing sleep who do u beleve?
he has to drive parents everywere and parents have license is that normal cause its really getting in a way of us seeing eachother
i think he is a mommies boy and his mom is controling him it irratating is this ok or not?
2006-08-22 03:20:46 · 13 answers · asked by Cat 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Leave this relationship as he will never leave his parents
2006-08-22 03:26:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
No it will never change! I had a similar thing with an ex, he is now married but his Mum insists on doing his washing and ironing as his wife cannot do it so well, she calls every night to make sure his wife has cooked a meal and stuff like that. Yours is worse, mine could care about his parents but yours sounds as if he is as dependant on thenm as they are of him.
Have you seen the film oh can't rember what it is called but is has sarah jessica Parker as a women who gets men away from their family homes, maybe watch it togther and see what happens. It is very good!
2006-08-22 03:35:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh girl, your man loves his mama too much. He needs help. Sometimes mothers love their children so much that they do it in a way that the children get too involved with them, and they don't want to separate, AT ALL!!!!! He needs serious help. It could be that ur man is lying to u and going out with another woman. Or his parents want u out of his life. U got 1 tough battle, ur love vs. mommy!!!! Good Luck Talk to him if u have some time together!!!
2006-08-22 03:30:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably he is unemployed or poorly employed...right? He is dependent on the parents and the parents take advantage of the situation. No parent will mentally like their son sharing the love bet ween them and a girlfriend. So unless he is confident that he can stand on his own two legs, he will not come out of the grip and you cant do anything there!!!
2006-08-22 03:42:22 · answer #4 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is there to help taking care of his parents, then that's fine... but if he's just there to mooch from them... then yeah that's not cool!
Really at 32??? wow....
I love my mom more than anything in this world... but still be at home after my 20's? No thanks...
But at least there are nice girls like you that understand... seems like he's pushing his luck...
2006-08-22 03:27:40 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its ok. That shows me that they can't handle responsibilities. They don't want to face the real world. Plus what grown *** man wants to live at home all of his life. I think you need to have a serious talk with him.
2006-08-22 03:29:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure sounds like it. Run to the next relationship dear. Ive seen this type of Mom ruin things for a couple I knew and now he is gay cuz she couldnt handle ANY woman being with him..
2006-08-22 03:26:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live with parent is good. Therefore, may be you try make friend with his parent. I hope his parent will know how your love you give him.
2006-08-22 03:28:40 · answer #8 · answered by duy boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to stop watching star trek, get a damn job and move out
2006-08-22 03:26:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to just find someone else, luv. It sounds to me like his folks, not to mention him too, don't seem to like or respect you much.
2006-08-22 03:27:06 · answer #10 · answered by makeherwett 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋