2006-08-22 03:03:17 · 12 answers · asked by tennys 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
get another bf thats the ONLY way
2006-08-22 03:09:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get over it. You only want this person because you can not have him. If you could have him, you may change your mind quite. One day you may look back and say I'm so glad I didn't get stuck with that person. Move on... Life is to short ..... Take it from a 49 year old women mister right is still out there don't waste anymore time on this person, go find your mister right.
2006-08-22 10:13:32 · answer #2 · answered by ladycan22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm.....this is a tough one. You might want to try to think about what it is about this person that attracts you to him, and what you think he means to you. Attraction is a very mysterious thing in many cases, but it can also be fertile ground for learning more about who you are and what you feel you are looking for in a relationship.
You may want to make a list of these characteristics and traits about him that you admire and focus on them instead of on him. And also you can make a list of things that you are not willing to accept (about him and other people). This will give you a better sense of who you are and what you value.
And gradually, the focus will be less on him, and more on what is important to you. Because when it comes down to it, it is not about him. It is about things that you see in him that you value. And in giving this more thought, you just might come to a better understanding of what it is that is that keeps you focused on him.
Sometimes having a trusted person in your life such as a therapist, counselor or clergy person (minister, pastor, rabbi) to discuss these things with can be tremendously useful too.
I wish you all the best!
2006-08-22 10:57:47 · answer #3 · answered by ... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life, that's how.
And that was not intended to be mean. I have felt the same way about men in the past but there's no use wasting my time occupying my mind with him.
2006-08-22 12:45:03 · answer #4 · answered by Stella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoever can figure that out is a geniuos.
try keeping busy
dont spend 2 much time alone
aviod the guy (if possible)
gl
2006-08-22 10:58:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep busy.
Go train in a gym.
Do sport.
Go out with friends.
Have dancing lesson.
Have fun.
2006-08-22 10:12:16 · answer #6 · answered by Marvin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who saids you can't have him:D ....the sky is the limit....go for it...but don't screw anyone over doing it...it never hurts to try or ask him out...:D
2006-08-22 11:01:06 · answer #7 · answered by Daniela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, get a life.
2006-08-22 10:12:01 · answer #8 · answered by nacmanpriscasellers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do anthing to keep ur self busy
2006-08-23 03:34:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
o0o yeah ...... you have to flirt with his best friend and you should always wear flashy clothing
2006-08-22 10:12:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋