Like, when I'm going out in public, I always wonder if I'm going to get talked about and if someone is looking at me, I automatically think that they are talking about me. Are they? Or am I just paranoid? I mean, why would they look?
2006-08-22 02:48:58 · 57 answers · asked by K G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I used to worry about what people said about me but everytime I talked to someone about it I got the response " People talked about Jesus Christ" so don't let things worry you. As long as they don't approach you with it then let it be because its childish on thier behalf to talk about you when you are not there to defend yourself. Jealousy is the main thing that keeps people talking. KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND SMILE
2006-08-22 02:56:04 · answer #1 · answered by BabyGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a girl, getting talked about should make you happy shouldn't it. It means you are getting attention. Not everyone is a freak. Just because someone looks at you and says something does not mean they are talking about you. Heck, I would talk about you if you were acting really weird in public. For example if you see some guy running through the mall followed by cops or some person dancing in a street. If you just go about your business, the only talking people will do about you is maybe about something you wear or did. That is not a bad thing. Don't worry! The boogy man is not waiting behind every corner to get you.
2006-08-22 03:10:21 · answer #2 · answered by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To answer your first question, so far in my life, there have plenty of other things to worry about so I haven't gotten around to that question. If the time ever comes when I don't have something to worry about and that question comes to mind and I feel like worrying about it, I'll lie down until the feeling goes away.
As for your later questions. It seems to me that either you don't have legitimate things to occupy your mind or, yes, you're a little paranoid. Probably not paranoid so much as much more concerned about how others will perceive you than how you perceive them. Why would anyone look at you? Because you're pleasant to look at.
2006-08-22 02:58:37 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are being paranoid, but it will pass. Who cares what people think of you, be yourself! Maybe they find your look interesting or pretty, maybe they want to be like you. Do you go out in public just to stare at people and talk about them? Probably not, so don't worry about it.
2006-08-22 02:58:14 · answer #4 · answered by Dina V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh u r not paranoid or anything u make sure of that!u never care alot about ppl and if they look at ya or talk about ya just be urself and enjoy ur hanging out it is no big deal really!ppl always lok to each others and that is normal u should relaxe and know that u r a cool person and that u know that u can handle anything in the world so get it easy on urself and enjoy life and don't bother with other ppl point of view about u or anything just be urself.
2006-08-22 02:58:27 · answer #5 · answered by joe m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't care what people have to say about me, unless, of course, it's something good. You sound to be very self-conscious about what others think of you. You need to just love yourself and not worry about people looking at you or saying things about you. Not everyone in the world is out to get you. I'm sure they have much better things to talk about than you. I'd take a good look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself how beautiful you are and how much you love yourself. If you don't love you, nobody else can either...
2006-08-22 03:04:51 · answer #6 · answered by Shining Ray of Light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what people think about you. You just go on and do your best and remember, most likely you will never have to see the same people again. Keep your head up while your walking and don't look around to see if people are looking at you. People will always look at you but it is up to you to not pay any attention.
2006-08-22 02:57:21 · answer #7 · answered by Amy A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I certainly don't care. If their talking bout me then they're saving someone elses hide. Life is far to short to worry about what people might think and/or say about you. Everyone wants to be accepted but no big deal if someone doesn't like me, there are people that I'm not that found of also.
2006-08-22 02:56:15 · answer #8 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put the question to yourself. Do you go out and look and talk about other people? If not, what makes you think people care enough to look and talk about you? Get over yourself. If you do, then that's probably why your paranoid about people doing it to you.
2006-08-22 02:55:15 · answer #9 · answered by baby1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Paranoid...I used to be the same way when I was a teenager...now that i am in my 20's it doesn't bother me if they do talk. The only time it bothers me now is when people start spreading bs lies and gossip about stuff that they know nothing about. Other than that I wouldn't worry.
2006-08-22 02:55:16 · answer #10 · answered by JeNn13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋