Every since i came home from college i've been looking at my bff in a new light.. I didnt get a chance to see him while i was n school.. when i came home he looked so different to me.. he looked so good!! when he talks about other females around i get jealous... i wanna be more than friends!! but wat if it doesnt work out? i dont want to lose a great friend either ... idk.. can u help me, please?!
2006-08-22 02:31:12 · 6 answers · asked by slim0524 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
my husband and i were bf's. he wrote me a letter telling me about his problems, then the last one was, "the finial issue is u amanda...i been falling for you for a while." it was cute. i liked him, but i didn't want to lose my bf either. time went on and he would talk about different girls. i was jealous. the day that i was going to tell him, he told me that he was gettin back with his ex. i was crushed. looking back on out, i should've told him earlier in the day then maybe we would've got together sooner. i waited a few more months, he poped around me one day and was like.."if i break up with my girl, will you go out with me." i said yeah and giggled a bit. a few days later he was like i broke up with her. it was cute. we been together for 3 and 1/2 years. we got married last year and had a baby. we're very happy together. i'm glad that i took the chance and went for it. so basically i think that you should just tell him. if you get cought up in the moment, you may lose your chance. you should live life with no regrets. go with your heart, not your mind. things could work our for you as then did for me. i hope my lil' story helps you good luck!
2006-08-22 02:46:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being inlove with a bff is hard, you have to make a choice, and its never a win win result, sometimes even tho the relationship didnt work out, you guys can still be friends, but sometimes, its just gonna be different and thing wont go back to normal, sometimes you just stop talking. This happens because either one of you got hurt really bad. So you have to take a risk either you be more than friends and try to work the relationship, or stay as friends and try to move on and forget about him because you dont want to lose a great friend.
Its up to you to make this choice, if you are willing to take the risk of losing a friend and gaining a bf and working the relationship, i wish you all the best of luck. But you have to remember that if it doesnt work out, you cant push it, you must know that in a relationship, its needs two people to love each other as much for it to work. Love cannot be force.
The other option is to let go of him, and stay as bff. This way you know you will always have a great friend that will always be there for you no matter what.
All the best of luck in sloving this.
2006-08-22 02:44:40 · answer #2 · answered by Farah_Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was going to say that. Make sure it is what you really want. Don't overstep your bounds. Make sure that you are willing to deal with the outcome whether it is good or bad. I hope it works out for you. Who knows, he may be feeling the same way, too.
2006-08-22 02:38:43 · answer #3 · answered by sapphire9580 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say
( HEY WANNA DO ME???)
if he says yes move from there....
if he says no... just tell him you wanted to see the look on his face. and it was great!!!!lol lol
2006-08-22 02:44:56 · answer #4 · answered by poisondragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that u like him
2006-08-22 02:44:10 · answer #5 · answered by xixie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a talk with him
2006-08-22 02:41:14 · answer #6 · answered by salsa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋