Is it still safe for a 43 year old to have her second baby? (w/ 2 miscarriages after the first baby was born)

Answer 1

The older you get, the more risks there are, but 43 is not that old. I had three miscarriages before my 2 year old daughter was born. I know that it can be frightening to think about having a baby after a miscarriage, but it is very possible. The reason you miscarried might have nothing to do with your age, so go to the doctor and see if they can determine why you lost your babies and what they can do about it. For me, it was an insulin problem that affected my estrogen and that caused me to have eggs that weren't viable. We fixed the insulin and the rest worked itself out.

As far as a 43 year old having a baby in this day and age, it is very safe and very possible. I was born in 1971 to a 41 year old mother and she said I was her easiest labor. (2 hours) She also said that having a baby in her 40's kept her acting young and she feels she was a better mother in her 40's than she was in her 20's with my brother.

Answer 2

Yes it is safe as long as you have a good doctor to help you through the delivery. I knew a lady in her early 50's who had a baby with no problems. She had a big baby girl, who is now grown with children of her own. I myself had two miscarriages I know what you are going through. Just be happy, and trust in God. I'll say a pray for you.

Answer 3

I don't seem to think this is a legit question as it is posted on the wrong section and you do not state what country you are living in, I assume the US but not sure. First off, what makes you think you are a good catch for either of these guys? If the Virgo has a 2 year old and his wife packed up and left, it that not a warning sign that there might be something wrong with him? Who would leave their baby and run away if things are so great. 43 single from France, sounds like a player to me. If either of these men are for real, why on earth would they want to take care of a 26 year old women who sounds like she is in it for herself. Why if they are so great don't they go for a younger women with a few bucks of her own? Just a reality check. You being Libra, I doubt you could live for long like a dish rag which is probably how you would feel after a bit being a sort of second class person in the relationship. If you don't have anything to offer yourself the player will be bored fast and they father doesn't need a second child to care for. If you haven't met either guy in person yet then it is all fantasy for now anyways. People do tend to lie a bit on internet dating sites, they could very well both be 400lb.s men with greasy hair with nothing to do all day long then to play act on dating sites just to see the responses they get. Sorry but it sounds like you are selling something and looking for the best offer. Ask yourself why these guys can't find a lady closer to where they now live, there as to be something they are not telling you. How did you find them, did you have to post nude pictures on the internet for them to get interested? Sounds to me like this is just not normal in any sense. I have friend who's daughter was well educated, a teacher in Honolulu a few years back. A very pretty,smart women who met a very super rich Arab man who was on holiday on the Islands. She was a bit younger then you now are. She left her job and he set her up as his mistress in the United Arab Emirates. He set her up with charge cards and paid for her 5 star hotel room. She could barely go anywhere, always had to be around for when he found spare time for her. He would never leave his wife and children for her. She left him once then came back and finally left for good. These rich men are rarely serious about having a real relationship with anyone from a lower status. Now she lives happily with 2 children and a real husband who cares for her. She was lucky, wasn't too damaged from her wild adventure.

Answer 4

well my mom is 43 and was pregnant about 6 months ago and July she had a miscarriage but if u take care it wont happen, but there is a huge risk

Answer 5

After 35 the chances for birth defects drastically increase. I wouldn't do it. It would be too selfish. I'm sorry for your miscarriages. Consult your OBGYN, not uneducated people.

Answer 6

There are still some risks envolved. But there can be risks with any pregnancy, alot of women are having babies in their 40's.

Answer 7

Yes. As long as you are have a monthly, it is ok to have a baby. God will stop you later.

Answer 8

yes but please get a specialist who will monitor u through Ur pregnancy.my heart goes out to for Ur miscarriage i had5 but i was blessed with 3 very healthy boy's.good luck and GOD BLESS.

Answer 9

Personally I would go to your doctor.

Answer 10

yes it is
good luck