my husband is closer to a female friend of ours who is also married, do i have the right to get jealous?

Answer 1

You probably have a 'reason' to be jealous, but I'm not too sure you have a 'right' to be!!!

You haven't really supplied enough information for people to be able to help you... Is your husband flirting with the other woman?... Do you suspect he may be doing stuff behind your back?

I guess what it comes down to, is how well you trust your husband.

It is probably OK to feel jealous, but it may suggest an insecurity on your part... Perhaps you don't feel secure in your marriage.

How close are you and your husband? Perhaps you need to try to put a bit more spark in your marriage, so that he is made to feel closer to you.

Have you asked your husband about his relationship with this other woman?... What he thinks of her?

I'm sorry I can't offer any other suggestions, but you just haven't supplied enough information for me to properly understand the situation. All I can suggest is that you keep an eye on the situation, and hopefully, he won't give you reason to be jealous.
Good luck!!!

Answer 2

Jealousy is a natural emotion to feel when you feel insecure about someone you love or care about, so feeling jealous in this situation is perfectly normal.

Do you have the right? now there poses a different question. If you and your husband trust each other then you have nothing to worry about, it may be that you need to address this in your relationship before this causes a wedge between you. Talk to each other. surely if you husband knows that you feel insecure he would do everything in his power to reassure you.
Please don't ask him to stop seeing her.

I was best friends with a man for many years, I was in a long term relationship at the time and my partner was fine about my platonic relationship with my friend. It was only when my friend met a girl who refused to accept me as part of his life and insisted that he stop seeing me, or having any further contact with me. I lost one of my closest and dearest friends. I felt let down by my friend and insulted that his new girlfiend wouldn't even consider meeting me to talk.

I have put this behind me now but this caused nothing but hurt. So again talk to you man and don't let things get out of hand,

Hope this helps

Answer 3

Have you found them in a compromising situation? Do they look away from each other or move apart when you come into the room they're in?

Maybe they get on very well - I get on well with several of my wife's friends (and if the opportunity arose, who am I to say I wouldn't go further?) - and maybe you're reading too much into the situation, but you do have a right to be jealous of her if your husband is ignoring you to entertain her.

Just speak to him about it ... but don't lose your cool otherwise you may push him nearer to her!

Answer 4

Let love reign if he feels that your friend gives him what he needs let him have it as long as he is with you.He gets only the milk not the cow........be generous with love share it dont be jealous,we only live once how about when you were single was he not with someone else?why be jealous then?you can aswell get closer to her husband .

Answer 5

Depends how long he has known her and how much you trust both of them. It could be a safe way of flirting with a female knowing it will never lead anywhere or it could lead to something more. Tell him it would make you feel more secure if they only met up once a week in either your house, her house or local pub etc with all of you present, including her husband

Answer 6

Your top on very almost each element i additionally experience shes hoping that sometime he will do away with u and take her. She is hateful at that shes no longer even a advantageous individual. Ask your husband what he ever considered in her as a pal because of the fact she is impolite and unfriendly to u and u might think of that on my own might offend him. tell him u continuously felt vibes approximately her yet couldnt placed your finger on it yet now because of the fact u comprehend experience she has a overwhelm on him and doesnt like u because of the fact he chosen u over her. Ask him if he can think of of the different reason she might act like she does. consistent with danger sometime u can tell her that u and your husband r very close and u comprehend appropriate to the sexual fling that they had and say how can u sleep with somebody u arent in love with that u think of it kinda weird and wonderful. See what she says at on the same time as your at it ask her how come she has continuously been nicely distant with u and can that have a reason she is that way. See what happens and confident I even have been acquaintances with a sexual substantial different of my husbands we werent close even though it became into thirty yrs in the past so and that they have been immature and what i call skanky so bypass discern.

Answer 7

Yes, of course you do, and if I were you I would find out how the husband of the friend feel about their relationship as well.

I could probably say more if I knew how old you both were and how long you have been married.

Answer 8

What do they have so much to talk about? What is it that they have in common so much that they are so close?

Honey you never let another women become closer to your man than you! "Cause trust me, THE THINGS YOU WON'T DO FOR OR TO YOUR HUSBAND SHE IS DOING TO AND FOR YOUR HUSBAND." I do not care if she is married or not. The things her husband won't do to and for her: YOUR HUSBAND IS DOING IT TO AND FOR HER.

Take my advice sweety stop it now before your husband leaves you for the female friend. -Vanity

Answer 9

Depends on the personalities - I love to flirt but would not be unfaithful to the person I love. Talk to him about your concerns if he loves you he may be a bit more considerate about your feelings. You say 'closer' not close which implies he thinks more of her than you which is totally wrong.

Answer 10

Closer to her than you??? You shouldn't be jealous, but I'd question him. Ask him what's up, and what you need to do to have such a close relationship with him as she does...