How often do you have sex with your partner?
Please also answer:
How old are you? For how long have you been together? Are you satisfied with the frequency or u would like it to be different? How?
I ask this because my boyfriend likes it less often than I do. If it depended on me I would have it every day, but hes tired from work, etc etc, so it happens like 3 times a week. What abt you?
2006-08-22 00:40:47 · 37 answers · asked by MaryJane 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm 25 married for 4 years. We have sex about 3-4 times a week and I am fine with that!!!! I stay at home with our 2 year old so at 9pm I'm just tired from the day. I wish I had your sex drive!!! Good for you.
2006-08-22 00:47:54 · answer #1 · answered by Queen of Kings 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
im 21, he just turned 22, we've been living together for almost 2 years. at first we would only have sex twice a week because he worked out of state all week and wouldnt come home until friday so there was no option there...now its usually once or twice a week, i have a very mentally demanding job and he works 2 jobs so we're both burnt by the end of the day. I am in the same situation as you, he likes it less then i do sometimes, but then will joke when he "doesnt get it much". Try joking around about sex like, just grabb him or his nipples jokingly and see if that helps some...find a weak spot you know will work every time! If you need more help let me know!
2006-08-22 00:52:10 · answer #2 · answered by sassy2sloppy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i am a 23/female. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. We used to have sex more often then now. We used to have sex like everyother day. We have a two year old and ever since he was born I have totally lost my Libedo. If he would let me I could probably go months with out it. i feel bad for him, so now we have sex like maybe 2-3 times a week. I would like to have sex less. I am never really in the mood but only have sex because I am sick of hearing him bi*ch and wine. It isn't that sex is bad, I am just not in the mood and am tired a lot.
2006-08-22 04:52:54 · answer #3 · answered by blueyegurl0283 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are both 35 years old and have been married for 10 years. We have sex once a week (at the most). I am not happy with this arrangement. I would prefer at least 4-5 times a week and in other places than just the bedroom. My spouce always is "tired" and never initiates sex. I would change things if I could.
2006-08-22 02:37:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, i just asked this same question like 2 weeks ago. I am 31 and my husband is 30. we have been married 6 years and together a total of 8 years. we have sex like once a week. We would love it every night. BUT i am tired from getting up at 6 am everyday and running around until 9 at night. my husband stays up playing xbox 360 so by the time he gets to bed i am long asleep!! everybody is in the same boat!!! not enough!! but too tired and busy!
2006-08-22 02:20:33 · answer #5 · answered by mml619 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 43, I've been with my guy for almost 5mo. we get along great in every way, he is the same way that your guy is. He works hard everyday, and he is just drained. But I can understand his reason,Sex is not the main priority in our relationship anyway, Love & Friendship is!!!!!!Just being with him and cuddling, & talking with him makes me feel loved, & desired, and I know that he feels the same way as well! If sex is the only thing that is based on a relationship, then the relationship is not worth having! There are many diferent things that a couple can do together! Having sex 3 times a week is just fine, I don't see a problem with it at all!!!!
2006-08-22 02:50:07 · answer #6 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have sex every other month
I am 27 y/o
We've been together 8-9 years
I'm not satisfied of the frequency - I'd like to have sex at least once a day
2006-08-22 00:52:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not going to answer your question directly as it is private however I think that you may be going down the wrong path if you are looking to compare it with your life.
The number / location / quality / length of your sexual encounters are your own affair and hearing that people ...
1. Do it more than you - will annoy you
2. Do it less than you - will worry you that it could get worse
3. Do it the same as you - wont change your life.
The real issue is for you to discuss with your boyfriend .. maybe it might be that he really does get tired and that you need to take the lead sometimes and 'do the work' or maybe he just doesnt want it as much as you .. everyone is different and you need to decide if not getting what you want in this department is enough of an issue to stay together / split up over.
Best advice I can give is to get away for a few days from work and everything else in a nice hotel .. I am sure it will all be fine then :)
2006-08-22 00:48:03 · answer #8 · answered by enzuigiriuk 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
My b/f and have sex everyday
Im 19 and hes 23
We have been living together for a year
Yes I love every moment of when we have sex plus it makes it better to attracted to your man
Okay we work too and go to school we be tired so when it's like that we do it in the shower
2006-08-22 06:36:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 24, he is 28. We have been married for 7 yrs this Oct. (together 8 yrs) we have sex almost everyday. I am very satisfied with the frequency.
2006-08-22 04:53:48 · answer #10 · answered by Justin's Wife of 10 Years!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋