I know it's wrong to judge but at my school everyone wants a cute popular guy there are popular guys that like me but they are unattractive what should I do
2006-08-21 23:29:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i judge ppl by there covers.... and so what?? there isn't a problem to it....
anyways, gurl.... ur not wrong.... u just need to step up mooore....
if ur popular like me, then u gotta enter alot of things for ur skol.... like cheerleading, volleyball, track, etc....
make something out of yourself.... be higher than high.... so u can build that confident.....
just forget about the hott boys ryt now, and start worrying about the gurls u hanging wit.... if there nerds, then loose em.... u wont get notice by that.... (actually u do, but then they start calling u a nerd too)
and once u become friends wit da popular clan....
u can then meet the guys and hook up wit them.... It's that simple.....
be a mean gurl and make everybody proud!
Be like me!
Tressa
<3
2006-08-21 23:36:33 · answer #1 · answered by prEppy_rOxy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay, I'm going to be completely honest here-- either:
1. Sorry, but maybe you're not totally attractive yourself?
2. If you are, even average-looking, maybe the cute popular ones aren't your type? Like, maybe you're quiet and everything and they're just show-offs looking for cheap thrills!
Or maybe you haven't realized that the cute popular ones aren't necessarily the best. Like, an average Joe as we say may be plain but has a super personality. Don't you think you'd much prefer a really nice nerd instead of jerk Brad Pitt resembling boy? I know I would. At least the so-called nerd would know how to treat me how I want to be treated! You just have to know how to look further. You don't have to go with Quasimodo, but you don't have to go with Prince Charming either. It all depepnds. Besides, I'm sure you're young and everything, so you've got time! It doesn't matter when or with who you start living love. YOU have to feel it! Go at your pace. Be a kid all you want-- especially if you're still near the age of one! Oh, and one more thing: don't follow the crowd. Start it. Or at least, go the right path; it's usually not the most popular or "cool", but the one that's best. ;)
So, hope this truly helped and my sincere best wishes!! :)
2006-08-22 02:16:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are simple and effective rules.
1) Put on some revealing clothes and slap on a bit of make-up
2) Give some of your guys 'the look' this is just look at them then turn away, don't smile, becaus then they know that you like them and then there is no chase, no chase, no date.
3) DONT act desperate, if a guy asks you out or starts talking to you, DONT stop and talk to him and drop everything, keep walking, again, the chase. If he wants you, he's walk with you. If he doesn't, don't worry and go back, he'll come for you. If he asks you out, tell him that you'll think about it.
If these steps don't work then forget about them. In the end, popular guys like popular girls, maybe make a few friends with the girls that they like, then they'll notice you more.
2006-08-21 23:36:52 · answer #3 · answered by susanradford18 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Falling into peer pressure says you're weak. It doesn't matter if they are popular as long as they have a good personality. Usually popular people are mean, so just stay away from them. It doesn't matter what everyone thinks or wants.
I remember being in this kind of situation. I wanted to be popular and to be like "everyone". All it did was made my life worse.
So best thing I can say is find someone with good character and integrity. If not, don't date at all.
2006-08-22 00:44:12 · answer #4 · answered by Kenneth S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should give one of the unattractive, guys a chance. chose one who is bright, u never know he could be the next bill gates. one thing i have noticed, is that if a girls trying to get a cute guys attention, if the two go out the, cute looking guy will just end up cheating or hurting the girl, trust my i know this from experience. so instead dont go up to the cute guys , if they come to u , then it is ok, but in the mean time, got out with one of the unattractive guys, u never know u could find him charming.
2006-08-21 23:41:36 · answer #5 · answered by rocky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love the Unattractive one he will help you to get popular
2006-08-21 23:34:18 · answer #6 · answered by boy_jam_arch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
particular! Oh hell yeah. i'm head over heels in love with a candy, lovable guy. we've been at the same time 4 years. final time i replaced into single in a club, I shoved the nice and comfortable, pushy guy away and gave the lovable, particularly shy guy a kiss. i know somebody who was once rather, rather staggering. sooner or later he began asserting "staggering men end final," and a at the same time as later began ingesting heavily and doing cocaine. He grew to become into an absolute monster. Please do no longer exchange. Ever. all and sundry nicely worth their carbon is going to take exhilaration in it sometime, while severe college is over. severe college sucks. do no longer enable the bastards get you down.
2016-09-29 13:19:38 · answer #7 · answered by huenke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever try asking one of them out?
It does happen.
Unlike girls, most guys will go out with all the girls they can. Of course, the girls may turn on you.
If you find some guy you like, ask him out, but; don't be surprised if he has sex with you and then dumps you. He's just looking for the best looking girl the way you are looking for the best looking guy. Eventually, you will both grow out of that.
2006-08-22 00:06:51 · answer #8 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rise above the cuteness! The most important thing in any relationship is a good personality.
2006-08-21 23:33:57 · answer #9 · answered by shoby_shoby2003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ugly guys want sexy popular women too. Sometimes you have to settle for what you can get. Besides popular guys are usually d*cks, they only want sex.
2006-08-21 23:35:53 · answer #10 · answered by Derek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋