His wife and him once upon a time split up. She's into drugs and he's not. I once told him I was surprised he took her back. He said yeah and then I married her. But he is having an affair with me.
2006-08-21 23:27:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
maybe promises were made and not kept who knows why he married her. The fact that hes having an affair with you shows he doesnt love her. He donesnt love you ethire, he loves himself. by the way how are those sloppy seconds?
2006-08-22 00:15:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seen this at my old work once , the man will always go back with his wife and really if there are kids involved same thing drugs were there and the man did not do any but he wanted to hang on with what was once there I hope he fights for the kids and gets a divorce if he files first his lawer gets to pick the judge that is if he does ever get divorced and I hate to say that you sound nice and don't need to be in between this crap the man is getting the best of it he's not going home to you.
2006-08-21 23:43:34 · answer #2 · answered by stefania_n2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To him you are just someone to get sex from because his wife is on drugs.Plus I think both are you are some wicked people. Instead of helping his wife get better he is messing around with you. I had a uncle that was on drugs until his wife came a long and got him off the drugs and now he has done some great things with his life. I don't think the dude love neither one of you. You need to find your own man instead of screwing married men.
2006-08-21 23:50:38 · answer #3 · answered by catmenacestop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, but he's married to her. A man can roll right off you and tell you how much he loves his wife sweety. Love and sex don't necessarily have anything to do with each other. Plus, now he's legally obliged. You can keep being his little toy as long as you like, but that's all you'll ever be. Don't you deserve better - a man of your own?
2006-08-21 23:36:58 · answer #4 · answered by R. F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves his wife enough to not divorce her ...which shows you were you stand in his life ... now you may chose to remain the "other" woman in his life that's totally up to you but do consider this
If he is cheating on his wife , leaves her and DOES marry you who is to say that when the going gets tough he isn't going to do the same things again ..
The truth hurts ((hug)) I am sorry to hear you have been placed in this situation
2006-08-21 23:43:26 · answer #5 · answered by MrsDave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be having affair with you but definitely he loves wife
2006-08-21 23:47:11 · answer #6 · answered by har 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has taken her back what more proof do u want of having love for his wife.and u need to look upon what he is upto abt ur life.and if thinking u'll hve a future in this relationship i personally say with experience u will actually not. tk cr
2006-08-21 23:40:33 · answer #7 · answered by mayu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An affair is wrong. To expect any good of it, is a fools paradise.
2006-08-21 23:32:58 · answer #8 · answered by Jon H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm--it's irrelevant. You are accepting less than you deserve--ie:someone who likes you enough, and is healthy enough to make a decision to actually be with you. Properly.Everything else is just stuffing , and storyline. You know in yer gut it's all c***-eyed, don't you?? Be well, and be good to yourself, and trust it. There'll be better for you.:)
2006-08-21 23:37:44 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, what do u think ,
u are having the affair with him
he will love his wife
but he loves u more ????
2006-08-21 23:32:51 · answer #10 · answered by Martin T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋